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A friend of mine is seriously leading on a freshly graduated 18 year old and he thinks she is serious but I doubt her feelings.

2006-06-30 12:31:59 · 10 answers · asked by tenshi_muth 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

ok sorry let me rephrase it is me that is interested in the 18 year old i am in a different place in my life ,i think, but i enjoy being around him but i don't know if my feelings are based on physical or real emotions.

2006-06-30 12:38:41 · update #1

10 answers

mind your own business

2006-06-30 12:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

i think it all depends on how mature this 18 yr old male is and what the mid-twenties girl plans for this guy...i honestly thought the age gap between 2 people in a relationship wasn't ideal, but if you ever see these people together, its actually how they are with eachother together or apart....i guess you can try hanging out with them, let them get to know eachother, see how she is when she's not with him, if she flirts with other guys and is just leading him on. then i'd warn her and tell him what's going on...hope this helps

2006-06-30 12:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, in my personal opinion. Since he just graduated i think he's a little too young to be "Entertained" by a mid-twenties female who's intentions are unsure.

2006-06-30 12:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

So what?

He's 18. He's going to have to figure things like this out in the future. People are not always honest or nice. Let him learn his lesson.

I question why you are friends with someone who would treat people this way.

2006-06-30 12:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0 0

1. You can't do anything about it, he won't believe you if you tell him she's using him because he likes having his ego stroked (don't we all). If you say something to her she'll tell you to butt out.

2. Why would she want to be with an 18 year old boy, and I mean boy because emotionally unless she's really immature they're aren't on the same level.

2006-06-30 12:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No, once you cross the line with sex you are messing with people's emotions and 18 is a little young. Easy to be swayed.

2006-06-30 12:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Irish 7 · 0 0

I don't agree with what she is doing, but it's her life. If you are really concerned then sit her down and talk to her about it. If that doesn't work, then just let it go. Everyone goes through heartbreak.

2006-06-30 12:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

dunno but im 22 and i dont have no problem "entertaining" 16yr old lasses (which is legal in britain) so yeah who cares just coz we missed the sixties dont mean we have to miss what happened

2006-06-30 12:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by danny boy 2 · 0 0

why not. you tell me what wrong w/ that

2006-06-30 12:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by you have ? i have a answer 2 · 0 0

it's not for you to worry about

2006-06-30 12:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron V 2 · 0 0

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