my older brother cusses at me all the time and its not just by telling me to shut the f**k up i kno i wud get in trouble if i cussed at him but he doesn't and he's 16 (not an adult yet) and he surely doesn't act like one (but he thinks he acts like a perfect adult) but i cuss too but its when my parents aren't around he never gets in trouble but i wud..................wut shud i do?
2006-06-30 12:16:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
how old r u? u wanna kno wat i would?..i would kick ur bro so freakn hard n da nuts he would b cryin 4 days. u need 2 punch him or sumthin 2 show that u cant jus run all ova me, and u need 2 hav sum respect. if u do that, omg he will nevr do it again...
2006-06-30 12:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by jaz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask your parents-they are the only ones that can specifically tell you why they are not consequenting his behavior since you state that you would perhaps a double standard of accepted behavior? OK for boys not for girls to do. I'd also explain to your parents how much this bothers you.It is never OK to accept being cursed at and you should demand respect. Perhaps once your parents are aware how it affects your self esteem-they will have him stop. Is this a pattern-does your father curse your mom? for if so then that's not OK and you should if you have no results with your parents-discuss with your school counselor,or pastor or priest depending on what religion you are but if none the 1-talk with parents 2.talk with school counselor
2006-06-30 19:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't cuss either. You need to have a talk with your parents without your brother around and tell them how hurtful it is to you when your brother is so disrespectful and verbally abusive toward you. Ask them to put a stop to it. They, in turn need to have a talk with your brother and make him stop. If nothing comes of this, just try to ignore it and just count the days you will be able to move away from your passive parents and your abusive brother.
2006-07-07 16:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on cussing. Cussing feels good, and just tell your parents that if he can cuss, you can cuss too. So, why don't you just out-cuss him, and say something so filthy it will totally blow him away. Then he'll feel like your the real one with the dirty mouth, and even though you don't cuss at him all the time, he knows that you could cuss him out big time. Try it. It'll be fun.
2006-06-30 19:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by lefty lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your parents are afraid of him, or are afraid of being parents. Have anyone you can talk to? You sure have a tough situation to work on. Just don't join the club and cuss back. Be the better person....
2006-06-30 19:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by momofboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents may be sexist and think since he's a boy it's alright. Even though is only 16 ,compared to you, your parents may treat him like he's older cause he is the first born.
2006-06-30 19:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents arent doing there job. If my son who is 16 did that he would have a bar of soap in his mouth so fast and be grounded. My 19 yr. old knows better then to do that .
2006-06-30 19:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by queeniez71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to the parents to be the parents and stop this.
Have you talked to them?
2006-06-30 19:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz he's a spoiled brat and your parents let him run the show. Good luck.
2006-06-30 19:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls aren't supposed to have potty mouths..at least that's what parents think when their daughters are young...you brother's IQ must not be that high since his vocabulary consist mainly of four letter words...
2006-06-30 19:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by miss_chrissy_dawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋