2006-06-30 11:43:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the one thing i can tell you from what i have found from the joy of living it! is you probably would not really want someone who is perfect but just perfect for you and the only way you can hopefully find it is by really figuring out what you need to be happy and not what you want! what i mean by this is my husband and me have known each other since we where kids and we only got together once we went to college but that was a lot my fault because i was looking for what i wanted... a hot guy with a hot car who seemed like Mr.perfect but a lot of times i ended up really unhappy or heart broken but when i spent some time on my own and started thinking what do i need in someone to help add to my life things that would help make me happy and i figured out it was someone i can talk to about the big things and the little silly things like what happened on Gilmore girls. who laughs with me not at me. who isn't afraid to let me be me even in front of his friends and someone who is my friend and once i did that i realized he was all ways right there in front of my face. i realized once i got over the idea of a handsome god like prince charming who rides up in his flashy car and has a huge castle to sweep me off to was not what i really needed i realized i could have the real life fairy tale of having a husband who for 9 years has loved me and adored me who has held my hair when i threw up who has loved me thin and fat and tells me i am the Angelina Jolie of the plus size world even if it is only to him who has been poor and poorer and then finally good with me who has been the best dad gotten up and stayed up with me and a crying baby who changed diapers and gave baths who buys tampons at the store and knows me not just my favorite flower but that i like drinking soda with a broken straw who thinks of me he remembers to grab my sweater when i walk out the door because i worry about the kids but i forget about me but he doesn't. So is it stupid to want a fairy tale......NO just make sure its one you write for your self not one from a book or a movie or based on what anyone else wants for you remember that sometimes the big bad wolf is really you and fears or insecurity's you can bring in to a relationship as well any unrealistic expectations of love, happiness and a relationship you might have, but if you can give of yourself be true to who you are and what you need not what you want then you will find your fairy tale this does not mean you settle it just means you know the difference. Everyone wants a mansion but all anyone really needs is a place to call home where they know they are safe and loved ,and until then work on being the best person you can so that when he meets you he know how lucky he is that his dream has come true!! hope it helps!
2006-06-30 12:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
He'll come along when you least expect it...
And no it's not stupid to want a fairy tale..I think that's every girl's dream..
But fairy tales aren't exactly easy to have.
There's always going to be trials and difficult situations in a marriage..but if you have the right guy..the two of you can fix any problems you both encounter.
Best Wishes.
2006-06-30 11:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by .: The Girl Next Door:. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask your girl friends and see if they know any one who might go out with you. It also depends on how old you are and what state you live in and what you look like? No it is not stupid to want a fairy tale ending. I also want that to but who really knows if that will even happen. Good Luck and do what you think is right.
2006-06-30 11:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by swimminglifeguard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just wait until I met the perfect guy, eventually. You should just date some guys and sooner or later you'll get what youv'e been looking for.
Yeah it IS sort of stupid to want a fairy tale, because in real life theirs no such thing .When the story says at the end, "and they all lived happily ever after!" I think it's a story that still hasn't ended.
2006-06-30 11:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew how to find the perfect guy so I could tell you! I think you can always wish for the fairy tale, but it probably won't come true.
2006-06-30 11:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will one day just wait and no it's not stupid to want a fairy tale
2006-06-30 11:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by Maria g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont know, but fairy tales arnt impossibe. I know my gf now, our relationship isnt perfect i guess, but its really close, and the way we met is an intersting story. it may not be a fairy tale, however it is very unique. Dont worry about it, because there is no way to make it happen, it just does.
2006-06-30 11:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by kingpenguin_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you will know when you have met the perfect guy. I met the perfect guy five years ago, but it wasn't till recently that we got together.
And yes, it may be long distance, but it is the fairy tale I wanted.
Keep your head up, and don't stop believing....
Good things come to those who wait!
;)
2006-06-30 11:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm looking for the perfect girl. lol. Nah is not a fairy tale it might seem like it. ya gotta look or he might come around.
2006-06-30 11:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jon A 10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone answers that first question, I'd love to know the answer myself.
And it's not stupid to WANT a fairy tale, at all, but to EXPECT it would be.
I wish I wish I wish it weren't so....
2006-06-30 11:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by Shadycat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋