I'm a charming fellow but I think that I am failing to send clear signals to the girls that I'm interested in.
2006-06-30 11:03:26 · 14 answers · asked by ashinchile 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Girls eat up the shy thing. Just try to use it in your advantage.
2006-06-30 11:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just practice being more flirtatious and what not. Keep being you though cause the ladies will see through your lies and you will have to face them eventually. Use playful carcasm, be witty, try new stuff out. Just have a conversation but play on your strengths. If something doesnt work, dont use it. If it does, great. Just have confidence that people will accept you for who you are, some will not but they are not worth hanging out with anyway. Practice going up to people and starting a conversation, then when you feel that you are not as shy, and go for the poeple you are after.
2006-06-30 11:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by windspirit33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool your jets bro, what are you doing to possibly believe that you are giving the wrong signals? Just be yourself, cus if you get stuck in a wrong relationship cus you based it on something you thought was perfect and you change for that person, it wasn't worth it. Just be yourself and some lucky girl will come running. OR you could go out to dances, concerts, pool hall, or go find a group of people you have never met before, and try bein outgoing.
2006-06-30 11:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take the advice of anyone on Yahoo, that's for sure...
I'm a shy person too, and it's also gotten in the way of my love life/social life. I've actually read a couple of books recently that really helped me... I think one was called The Gift of Shyness and one was The Shyness Solution...there are really lots of great books out there about shyness.
2006-06-30 11:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by stacyj913 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself....know that you have to have the RIGHT person. it's a very trying patience thing, but your total makeup is engeneered for that special person that God has already made for you.....it will blow your mind when you meet her 7 figure this out, 'cause then you're going to be using all you're wasting right now in pleasing her.....your shyness, you will see, is actuaaly going to become boldness.
2006-06-30 11:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what is wrong... you seem to know what is needed to fix it, so why are you asking us? What should you do? Get off the computer and go meet someone.
2006-06-30 11:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to take the plunge sometime ,
just take a deep breath and do it, you wont
regret it , trust me
2006-06-30 12:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by BONE° 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Xanax.
2006-06-30 11:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Halo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haahaahaahaa go jack of not just take a chance dont be a pussy
2006-06-30 11:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
become old, ugly and outgoing. that should fix things up.
2006-06-30 11:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by DIE BEEYOTCH!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋