I don't need any lectures, Just wondering if I was a slut before I settled down...well I'm pretty sure I was, but it was fun! How do you know what you like if you don't have the sample platter?? =)
2006-06-30 11:01:08 · 20 answers · asked by andreadawn99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In their Life and not at the same time....
2006-06-30 11:21:09 · update #1
Depends on what you believe. Some people think you should only be with one person. If that works for them and they find someone who stays with them and vice verses for the rest of their life then that is wonderful. (Marriages don't always last.)
How ever as long as you weren't jumping in the sack with people left and right (depending on how long of time that 10 is spread out over) then you weren't a wh***.
People are so quick to condemn women for things they wouldn't think twice about with men. That my dear is pure bull$^!#.
I say you have reached a point in your life you have learned that sex isn't the be-all end-all in your relationships and you want to settle down... then you've learned something and that isn't all that bad.
Even if you'd slept with 10 men every day for a year it doesn't mean you are still a wh*** it just that you used to be a little less discriminating then you should have been. (Or you used to be a wh***.)
Really it depends on what is common within your area/group and how you feel about it.
Act like a lady and don't worry so much about your past.
2006-06-30 11:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you probably were a sl*t before, but you could be right, about seeing what life has to offer, or as they used to say about guys, sowing their wild oats.
At least, now when you marry, you will have no regrets about missing out on something.
Just make sure, that your new hubby, is cool with your past fun times.
2006-06-30 18:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, if you had your fun! There's nothing to say about one's sexual past, except that you learned and got experience from it, became a better lover, and learned more about yourself. I believe that as long as you did it in the normal and safe terms (no cheating, and with protection that is), you're alright.
Once settled, it goes like one of my favorite songs:
"... If others have been your school, I hope I'm your graduation, just as long as you include pure love in our bed." - Ricardo Arjona
2006-06-30 18:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by cucajoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have gotten around. A lot of girls have had more than a couple partners. It doesn't necessarilly make you bad, just experienced.
When a guy has many partners they call him a stud... .when a girl does it, the call her a sl*t. If you ask me it is a double standard.
2006-06-30 18:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by Rob K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL I AM 28 ANS SINGLE FOR ALL BUT 2 YEARS OF THAT TIME AND I HAVE HAD 33 DIFFERENT PARTNERS..DIVIDED BY 10 YEARS OF BEING SEXUALLY ACTIVE WHILE I WAS SINGLE AND IT EQUATES TO 3 PER YEAR..AND I DON'T THINK I'M A WHORE NOR WOULD I WITH SOMEONE ELSE WITH SIMILAR NUMBERS
2006-06-30 18:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ithink it is great you need the experance,then when the right guy come alome you will know just what you want so go get -em
2006-07-06 21:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by macki4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good girl !!.....life is for living you worry whether you were s**t or not. enjoy the relationship your in now I'm sure your partner wasn't a saint before you met him
2006-06-30 18:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by joy r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had sex with 16 guys, I don't consider myself a ******. And it was fun! I loved it!
2006-06-30 18:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by L.A. Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talking about in a day, a month, a year, or many years.... you might be more specific when you ask a question...
2006-06-30 18:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get married and repent! you are a hoar (no offense) if you had that many and wasn't even married to them. and the sample platter IS your spouse.
2006-06-30 18:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by johnthecompnerd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋