Somehow when I was dating husband, we went on a double date with his friend and this chick. As day went on I noticed that she and my husband (boyfriend at that time) we being a bit flirtious and I got ticked off and I checked right away! Shortly after that occasion we broke up and I found out that they messing around. But she did that with every guy and he then beg forgiveness. Of course I didn't forgive him so easily but its been some years since but I can't help to think about this stupid girl! I ask myself why do some women do that??? Because I never have, I never had to!
2006-06-30 10:56:39 · 30 answers · asked by Irene A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's because some women are very greedy and they just want what they can't have. Have you every wanted something, but were told you couldn't have it? It's like that. I'm not saying it's a good thing. On the contrary, I think dating married men or women is terrible, but the reason they do it is because if they know someone is unatainable (married or seeing someone) they will go after that person to prove that they CAN have him or her. I'm sorry about this double-date thing, by the way.
2006-06-30 11:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some women, a man who is taken is more of a challenge to obtain. They want the challenge.
The unfortunate thing is that there is more women in the general population than there is men so there will always be some cheeky chick around the corner, trick is to find a trustworthy and loyal guy and not worry about these types or girls.
2006-06-30 10:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men and women look more desirable when they have attractive significant others. Makes a person wonder if they could measure up to her/him (object-of-their-desire's current squeeze) or even come out ahead.
Or it could be they aren't looking for a relationship and the best way to avoid dealing with a guy after the booty call is to go after those who are taken and thus don't want to get caught.
That being said it is a moot point if your significant other is faithful as it takes two to cheat.
2006-06-30 11:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by vlt_moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taken is the word, and some women, have no self esteem, and try to boost it, by seeing if they can get some guy, that some other lady is dating.
It's just some sort of game with them, they don't really care about the guy, and care, about winning them over.
Usually they use their sex to get the guy, sadly, most guys, will do about anything for an easy piece of sex. Especially, if they think no strings are attached.
Why they take the risk of losing their girlfriends or wives, is something else again. They just aren't thinking, or thinking below their belts.
2006-06-30 11:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they think of it as a challenge. It's like a deal with the devil. But, he went for it. Could have said no. She wasn't the only one to blame. Although she made a good scapegoat.
2006-06-30 11:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by Gatherer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tooken is not a word. I think you mean taken. Don't call other people stupid until you learn basic conjugation.
2006-06-30 10:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by drumrchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase some woman think that they are pretty enough to steal someone away. and i geuss this girl was. so that means that she as prettier than you. or maybe the guy that was with you was getting tired of one woman so he cheated on you. but now hes coming back to you, cause hes tired of that woman. its an ongoing process.
2006-06-30 11:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Samsonlady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women, like to see if they can get men to notice them by how they act or what they say. So they go and test it on men who have partners, because they want to see if they will notice them even though they are married.
2006-06-30 11:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by babigurl34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you can not only blame it on the girl,however, most women that do that are afraid of commitment, looking for a chalange, or are insecure.
2006-06-30 11:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by blue_dragoness5695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a basic attraction for a man that is occupied. It's the whole wanting what you can't have scenario.
2006-06-30 11:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by bluucantuinashoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋