And he did like me cus he told someone. We didn't get along at all and when i was concerned for him on something and talked to him about it he totaly lost it and gave me the silent treatment...he gave me the silent treatment all the time. Finaly he got verbally abusive and had anger issues so i said ok it's over.
But what i don't understand is why would he do all that if he liked me. I know he did...and i was told that he did. I don't understand.
2006-06-30 10:45:41 · 12 answers · asked by mountaingirl88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
two possiblites..
He was lying about how he feels..
or...
he was trying to hard to control you.. holding on too tight. (It works kind of like holding onto a handful of sand.. the tighter you squeeze, the more slips between your fingers
2006-06-30 10:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by nobodysangel_nobodysfool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you the truth: men are big losers (yeah, I'm saying it even though I'm a man) and unlike the women, men mostly focus on something that presently occurs to them. Women, on the other hand think ahead and plan out most of their actions carefully. In your case, the guy in your relationship let his temporary negative emotion overrule his long-lasting positive emotion (liking you). He may have meant it when he said he liked you, but as it happens with a lot of men, other less important things get in the way.
2006-06-30 18:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple...he has issues with himself he has not yet resolved so he doesn't know how to behave like a decent human being. It's good that you recognized that his treatment of you was unacceptable and you didn't stand for it. That's excellent. But don't waste any more time trying to analyze him. He's not worth the energy...save it for the guys who will treat you right and respect you.
2006-06-30 17:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has poor communication skills and does not know a better way to express himself. Most of us learn our communication styles from our parents or other significant people in our lives which we have modeled. If he knew better and more effective ways of dealing with problems, he would probably try them. He probably really does like you and just doesn't know how to deal with issues. Those two things can co-exist.
2006-06-30 17:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some guys suffer from a low self esteem, so it's very easy for them to abuse order, making them feel like they do, but it's mostly a cry for help. They are not sure if they are living up to their masculinity .It’s a form of assertiveness to them .But it’s in fact a sign of immaturity, and lack of respect for other.
2006-06-30 19:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by denty202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bad situation. I would say stay away from him. There are plenty of men out there that will treat you right. Life is too short to get treated poorly. Much too short.
2006-06-30 17:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by cannonball 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some issues he needs to deal with and is taking it out on you,maybe you need to get to why hes really so upset,and if he keeps on you might wanna watch out because he may really get violent,just watch ya back,good luck!
2006-06-30 17:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by me_unique2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause guys are idiots! Sometimes they don't think before they speak. But if it's a constant thing, then he's just an asshole that think he got it like that!
2006-06-30 17:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by tleighann99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't like you enough to treat you with respect. Give him not another minute of your time and move on. He's not worth it.
2006-06-30 17:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity. Fear of not being worthy of you or his ability to keep you so if he put you down it is like he is in control and you can't hurt him.
2006-06-30 17:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by treeof knowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋