here is this boy at my school and he is soo cute. lots of girls at school like him. ive known this boy since i was in the 7 th grade but i was terrebly shy. i hardley ever talked to him now in the 10th grade and i have i have (sort of ) broke out of my shell and it seems as if he likes me... almost every time i see him in the hallway we hug but we still arnt that close. i have never had a boy friend in my life. i am so scared to ask him but i want to know how do i get him to come about asking me? and if the answer is flirting... how do i actually go about flirting? i need percise directions.PLEEZ HURRY! I HAVE THE FEELING HES GONNA GET TAKEN SOON!
2006-06-30 10:32:51 · 12 answers · asked by malli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is teh best tip. If you want it, go for it. Just ask him Screw all teh stupid games of trying to see if he is interested, just ask. If he likes you that way, he'll say yes and then you have your solution. If he says no, you know he isn't interested and you didn't waste your time with stupid tactics such as hinting and lightly flirting.
2006-06-30 10:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm... You only THINK he likes you?? Pu-leez! Girl, This guy is all over you. You think that most guys go around hugging everyone? well.... they don't. But if you still feel like you need advice on flirting:
#1- ALWAYS smile. That's the best way to show your friendly, interested, and nice.
#2-Play with your hair or fix your make-up around him. It shows your feminine side.
#3-Wear clothes that fit you well. Sorry, but appearance IS important, no matter what anyone says, when finding a bf/gf is involved.
#4-Touch him when you're talking. NOT OBVIOUSLY!!!! but if he says something, you can lightly tap him on the arm.
#5- BE YOURSELF. I know this sounds cheesy and you've probably heard it a gazillion times, but it's true. You don't want him falling in love with the "fake" you.
Good luck!
2006-06-30 17:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Perfect Alien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and he are already hugging, I think he likes you. Why don't you just ask him out on a date, or just kiss him?
But if you really want to figure out how to flirt: look into his eyes, smile at him a lot, show him that you're happy to be with him and you enjoy being close to him, compliment him, talk about slightly sexy things, joke around with him, when you hug him grab his butt, or rub your body against his, or kiss his neck, or all three. Show him a flash of panties when no-one else can see, or ask him to help you adjust your bra.
2006-06-30 17:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Roger D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to act like you have all the confadence in the world. You need to complament his look that day like what he is wearing.Then pick out a movie that is new and hot and ask if he has seen it and tell him you really want to see but nobody else can go this weekend(it needs to be a scarry movie) then if he is interested he will offer to go.
2006-06-30 17:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by Todd H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Any girl will tell you that she wants a nice, sweet, sensitive guy. Since no guy seems to know how to do that, there is an alternate route that i know of.
1. Find out who her friends are. Get to know them. Make them think of you as a nice guy. Belive me, this is a lot easier than talking to a girl you have a crush on, and no girl really wants to go out with a guy her girlfriends don't approve of.
2. Start hanging around with her group. Eventually, the girl you like will be there with them. Start getting to know her. She will be a lot more comfortable talking to you if her friends introduced you instead of you coming up to talk to her out of thin air.
3. After a few days, she will start to contemplate whether she likes you or not. Start being especially nice just to her.
4. After a little more time, ask her out. Inevitably, she will go to her girlfriends for advice. Make sure you have a good impression on them. They will encourage her to accept, and u should get a date.
I can only get you that far. After that it is all up to the first date, which had better be simple yet romantic. Anything else is u to you.
ASF: "Try approaching every HB you see and say, "Hi. Are you the sort of person I should get to know better?" If she says "Yes", then ask "Why?" Put the focus of the conversation on what she has to offer you. Do this in a matter of fact way, like you were saying "Hi. Your shoe's untied." In fact, if you can't yet muster the boldness to confront HB's, then just tell them it looks like they're about to lose a heel on their shoe and WALK AWAY. Try it. It works." Don't misunderstand the "addressing a girl and then walking away works" part - it doesn't work for getting to know these girls, it works to add to your experience and feeling natural and good about approaching girls:)
I didn't use "feeling confident" here on purpose, because ideally, you don't want to feel "confident" - being confident is something you think about and which ultimately reveals that you must be nervous in one way or another after all. Ideally you feel so good and natural about it that the word "confidence" never pops up in your mind:) Feeling so good and natural that you have no need to think about being confident is actually the ultimate confidence - but never think of it in terms of confidence. Forget the term "confidence" altogether, just concentrate on feeling good and natural (about approaching, propelling her to new heights of pleasure with your patterns, having kino etc) and before you know it - "confident" is how you'll be perceived by women:)
Update. When seeing a girl you'd like to approach, don't even try to "feel confident". Instead, think: "See that girl? I am the perfect experience for her!". Think of the way she will have goosbumps from the way you'll make her feel good, and if you want to, then for just a split-second you can remind yourself of all the ways you could make her ***:) Don't dwell on that though:) Just go and offer her the experience of a life-time:)
2006-06-30 17:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about things that interest him and listen, just don't hear what he says. Smile a lot, give good eye contact and relax. That's the best way to flirt. Good luck!
2006-06-30 17:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u, like 10? no guy will go out with u if he knows ur asking for flirting tips! lol!
2006-06-30 17:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by lca_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he' s about to be taken soon.... U NEED TO TALK TO HIM!!! ASAP girl, don't be shy because u're gonna loose him. and u say he likes u, come on, be serious, u can talk to him. good luck!
2006-06-30 17:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by sweet thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at him a lot. tell him you like his shoe strings, his shirt, his calculator. give him a peice of candy. carry his books for him.
2006-06-30 17:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like you dont want him tease him a little DONT say you like him dont be shy then he'll want you
2006-06-30 17:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by krystal n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋