I have noticed that when, let's say, I am getting my change back from the cashier. Many times I have noticed, If it is a male cashier, he'll touch the palm of my hand or my fingers. Even though the touch wasn't necessary. I am only talking about some men. And ofcourse it doesn't happen all the time, but only with some men. In every exchange with them that requires giving something or taking something from them, that "touch" seem inevitable. One time I was giving a check to someone. Even though I was holding the the end of the check, his palms somehow still touched me. I always wonder why some guys do that?
2006-06-30 10:15:07 · 20 answers · asked by Sunny 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Cause touching their knockers can get you in trouble.
2006-07-13 15:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men might be trying to flirt or see if there is a connection but some men and women too just simply enjoy touching. It isn't anything more than that. When men have done this same thing to me, it has always left me feeling funny. I would say that it is invasive and not appropriate but what can you do? Just try to keep back like you did with the check or I have found that I try to drop the money into their hand or place it on the counter.
2006-06-30 10:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a gentle way of flirting but since one man went for the check all the way, it could mean more. Forgive me if I assume that you are very attractive and charming, but this may the reason some men feel compelled to touch your hand. It is the only body contact that is allowed in the corporate world or business world that is not considered harrassment.
I hope that you will take this situation as either clumsy contact or an innocent flirtation. Either way you are on safe ground.
2006-07-13 19:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 00:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of that, but those guys are probably sick individuals needing or wanting attention. Maybe next time tell them to not touch you like that. It isn't right and thats disrespectful and a sense of violation I imagine.
2006-06-30 10:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I share your frustration! People on here are straight up rude sometimes. Especially in the religion section! They ask to hurt others. They ask to insult others. They do not ask for the mere purpose of discussion or finding out the truth.
Take care girlie....by the way, just avoid the lame questions!
2006-07-12 20:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by mx3baby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flirting.
2006-07-12 16:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be hot then! some men like taking a shot knowing that none would be taken seriously. (hey, just for the heck of it, try doin the opposite and see what happens.... )-this is just me thinking out loud-
2006-07-12 15:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by d-lite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are your hands to good to be touched, wear gloves problem solved. or only shop where women are the cashiers.
2006-07-13 09:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by duc602 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer touching other parts of a woman.
2006-06-30 10:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by Karen_momof4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this happen too, and it seems like a violation of personal space. I think they are testing their boundaries and haven't been taught proper etiquette.
2006-07-13 09:49:15 · answer #11 · answered by pizzagirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋