2006-06-30 10:11:25 · 17 answers · asked by aly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not something u can just go to the store and "get". lol, if you dont want one, then dont get one. if ur unsure, figure it out for yourself....dont let your friends tell you what you should do and should not do. having a boyfriend, lol, is like having a puppy....they're cute at first, but then they just make messes everywhere haha.
2006-06-30 10:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by sball124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get a boyfriend just for the sake of having a boyfriend. If there is a guy you really like and want to hang out with, then go ahead.
If there is no particular guy that you want, then just be happy with the friends you have. Don't let others push you into something you don't want!
One good close friend is worth a hundred lame-a** boyfriends!
2006-06-30 17:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want a boyfriend then don't get one. it's not something that just happens you don't go out and pick one the person you pick may not like you. trust me when the time is right it will happen. don't let your friends talk you into something. it will happen on its own. if your not sure then maybe you should just chill for a bit. trust me i am in a relationship and have been in this one for 4 years. but along with a relationship is drama sure it's all good in the beginning but that's how everything is, don't get me wrong i love my bf more then anything but sometimes i do want to be alone and he doesn't or he does and i don't. or he wants me to do this with him and i don't and he gets mad or vice versa. so i hope i helped you out. luck
2006-06-30 17:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by jean22005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not like getting a dog from the pet store, or a new pair of shoes. If you find you're really attracted to someone, and he likes you and you want to get to know each other, fine, no one wants to be lonely. But if not, don't listen to your friends, do what your heart tells you to do, and what you know is right. Don't rush or be pushed into doing things that may hurt.
2006-06-30 17:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Matt B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one, or because your friends say to get one. Just as we women don't want men to treat us as objects, we shouldn't treat them like that. Getting a boyfriend under those circumstances is getting one to show off on your arm, like your new dog or most recent purse. It is objectifying them, and degrading.
Instead, wait until you find a guy you like. If you like him, and date him, then you can think of him as your boyfriend. A boyfriend is a lable for the guy you like enough to date and hang around often, not a toy.
2006-06-30 17:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by b30954 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, if i listened 2 everything my friends said relationship-wise I would be in a world of trouble!! If u want a bf, get 1!! it's 100% up 2 u.
It is nice 2 have a bf, but it's also EXTREMELY stressful...but it all evens out!
Good Luck! ;-)
2006-06-30 17:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Lovliness♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing: don't ever listen to your friends.
Your friends don't know whats good for you, you know whats good for you. You should get a boyfriend if YOU want one. Not because they say so.
2006-06-30 17:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st answer this question -how old are you/
2nd if your under 15 years old you should'nt be looking for a boyfriend your too young and don't listen to your retarded friends
2006-06-30 17:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by Hmmm I Think??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually dating and having a bf is totally up to you. if you keep letting everyone run your life you will just become a robot and have no control over your own life.
2006-06-30 17:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by short.lil_momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a g/f and she is the best girl in the world... Good luck!!
2006-06-30 17:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by Peter R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋