How if people say that ur son / daughter is gay / lesbian but at the same time ur son / daughter said he / she is not gay? Who do you more believe ur child or others? Why?
Do can accept if ur child really gay? << this question more to Asian parents but if u r non-asian still can answer it
2006-06-30 10:11:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Most of you believe ur children. Ok. But how if people that told u not just one person but more than 5? Hehehe
2006-06-30 10:28:53 · update #1
I want listen dad voice! Most of u mom... and thanks all mom... that why ur child more luv u than his / her dad... hahaha... all dad, how?
2006-06-30 10:31:16 · update #2
I want listen dad voice! Most of u mom... and thanks all mom... that why ur child more luv u than his / her dad... hahaha... all dad, how?
2006-06-30 10:31:24 · update #3
I think it would depend on why others believed my son/daughter to be gay. Did they see him/her kissing someone of the same sex? Do they know someone of the same sex that claims to be in a relationship with my son/daughter?
I think I would probably sit down with my child and let them know that I believe them - but also let them know that I don't think there's anything wrong with being gay, and that if they ever have any questions, or need to talk, I'm always there for them.
2006-06-30 10:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by weofui 2 · 5⤊ 5⤋
I accept gay/lesbian child. Your parents might not like it at first but they will get used to it over a few years. AFter all there's no way to change it. They will adjust.
2006-06-30 17:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe your child. Keep communication open with your child. If they are gay or not, ACCEPT THEM for who they are -- we all want our children to be happy, if that is with someone of the same sex, then so be it.
2006-06-30 17:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by EssGee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the end of the day i wouldnt listen to what anybody else had to say about your son or daugher if your child was gay you would still love them the same way i no i would.
2006-06-30 17:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of relationship do you have if you can't trust what your child says?
The important thing is to have a climate of honesty so that you and your child can share all kinds of issues, no matter how difficult or sensitive.
2006-06-30 17:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by wwefna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell your child to be honest (and you show them that you mean it) and they still tell you they are straight then you have to believe them. But if you give the stigma that being gay is bad expect them to lie to you;
2006-06-30 17:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belilve my child because
if not with me, with whom else
they disclose!
If I dont trust my child, who else
will trust?
2006-06-30 17:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whose business is sexual orientation? Not mine, not yours, not anyone's but the people intimately involved. I mean, parents accept their children. Period. Rather, they should.
2006-06-30 17:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PROBALY BECOUSE YOU DONT WANT TO BELIEVE THAT THEY ARE DOING SOMETHING BAD!!YOU WANT WHATS BEST FOR YOUR KIDS!!AND NOSY PEOPLE TELL LIE'S TO TRY TO BRING PROBLEMS TO YOUR FAMILY!!
2006-06-30 17:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋