My dad has NEVER been there. He just pissed me off for the last time so I CUSSED him out on a message. What reaction should I expect from him now?????????????????
2006-06-30 10:08:09 · 15 answers · asked by **What??** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am an adult now
2006-06-30 10:17:27 · update #1
None . I'm sorry you have to go through something like that . I will remember you in my Prayers tonight . My kids went through that and now they don't speak to him b/c of empty promise's on his part .But my kids are fine and they have a awesome father in there life that Loves them more than words can say . I pray that is what will happen in your life . May God Bless and Keep you in his warm embrace . Rest in knowing that he is the one missing out not you.
2006-06-30 10:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by lookinforwardtoheaven 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he should be pissed of at u for cussing him out but if never says sorry for never being there or getting u pissed uf thandon't say sorry to him
2006-06-30 17:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by PRINCESS J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dad is a deadbeat, I assume you see him once every 5 years. If you actually interact with him in person every year, he will tell whoever is taking care of you now. You will get in trouble. If your over 18, he will cus you right back out and you too can brawl it out until a solution is found.
2006-06-30 17:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None. Don't wait for one either. If you dad has never been there he probably won't in the future. Go on with your life and maybe someday he will step up to the plate and be a dad. Don't wait for it, though, as you will always be dissapointed. Sorry.
2006-06-30 17:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God don't like ugly. I know you may be mad but we all get mad sometime. Just remember this not matter what don't treat others bad, just because they dish it out your not any better by cussing him out. So don't wait for him to call you back call him and be the bigger person. You'll feel better in the end.
2006-06-30 17:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Monica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel that your father is a dead beat, that may be so, but have you ever confronted your father and told him so. Right now after the fight you had with your father he may feel hurt, whether deserved or not, hurt as he is this may affect his relationship with your mother. By not talking and resolving conflicts with your father, your mother could end up getting emotionally hurt as well. Take my advice have a civil talk with your father. I suggest having it with your mom there for support.
2006-06-30 17:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None - if he hasn't been there for you before you cursed at him, he certainly won't be afffected by your swearing at him. Do the best thing for yourself, though - don't justify his refusal to help you out finanacially by acknowledging his lack of presence in your life.
2006-06-30 17:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by dmspartan2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the situation but now im finally giving him a second chance.but you should expect him to try something to get your attention. thats exactly what mine did the more you push him away the more hes going to try.
2006-06-30 17:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by noralovesgenaro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what is to cuss, but I imagine that he will be upset
2006-06-30 17:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deadbeat dad or not ,you only have one, sometime somewhere you both will need each other,and tell him and youself past is past and go from thier
2006-06-30 17:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by crazydave444 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋