I met a guy on line dating and we hit it off right away. We took down our profiles and got pretty intense right away. A month in, I felt him pulling back. I checked and sure enough his profile was back up. I questioned him and he said he was unsure about us because I seemed jealous of his kids, I said no,I'm not just communicate when you need time with them and it's fine. (I got mad because he just disappared one weekend.) We continued but I went out with someone else beacuse his profile was up. I couldn't think about anything but him, so I stopped seeing guy number two. We had a great date then he cancelled two others at the last minute. I confessed all about the other guy, and how all I could think about was him. He said reason he cancelled was he knew about the other guy. We talked, I told him I want to be with just him. He said he does love me, is confused but wants a fresh start for us. We also found out I am pregnant. But I don't think I will keep it. Do I trust him?
2006-06-30 09:45:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion..If I were you...I would very swiftly remove myself from this situation, and speak to someone that I do trust about the pregnancy.
2006-06-30 09:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Satanique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went out with another guy, and you're worried about whether or not you can trust guy #1? What did he do to shake your trust? Your post didn't indicate he did anything other than put his profile back up (not that he went out with anyone).
If you want to try a clean slate, then maybe it'll work...time will tell...but you need to communicate with each other more, not assume jealousy w/o discussing it (re: his kids), and no disappearing acts...talk things out...if you don't have communication, part of your relationship foundation is missing...how can anything exist for long without a solid foundation?
2006-06-30 16:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that you just went on a first date and it went pretty well... how long should it take him to call you?
Does this first date guy know you are pregnant with internet boyfriends baby? I say this is why you do not internet date or have sex before marriage.
2006-07-05 12:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not being funny love! but why dont you get off line and stop writing long esays about guys that you meet on line! and go out and meet someone! goodluck and no you cant trust him! he could be a f****** murderer/rapist/ anything for god sake get a grip
2006-06-30 16:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust him, but don't take it out on the innocent either.
2006-06-30 16:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by 10-5-4-9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno but pls dont get rid of the baby! or atleast put it up for adoption...are u sure u know whose baby it is? pls dont do anything to that poor baby! try to work things out and keep it!
2006-06-30 16:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you.
2006-06-30 16:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it girl....
2006-06-30 16:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know your decision!
2006-06-30 16:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by Shaquithia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋