we've been together for 10 months now. i met her online and we hit it off and we've had a great relationship ever since. back in late april, a so-called "talent agent" signed her to a music contract which she gets to make a demo cd. the studio is in nj, close to where i live. he even said he got her an apartment 2 houses away from me. we were estatic about it cuz she would be moving to nj with me. but a few days ago, this "talent agent" came clean and told her he was a fake and couldn't do any of the things he promised her. and now she can't come live here with me. we love each other more than anything in this world and plan on spending the rest of our lives together. how can we get through this major letdown. how can we stay together?
2006-06-30 09:38:44 · 7 answers · asked by no_resolve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
arrange a vacation where you go to cali to see her once a yr. she will have to do the same and see you once a year. but distance doesn't really seperate you guys, it just brings you guys closer together. what i said about the vacatino was onli a suggestion. but you guys really hav to find a way to meet each other. good luck
2006-06-30 09:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why doesnt she just move anyways? lol..i cant figure this one out at all cuz just because some guy promised her all that and then it fell through she is still fully capable of moving all by herself with you..unless she cant afford it or something.......if u want her with u so much u guys shud seriousloy discuss it and work it out and plan for her to go there anyways deal or no deal! you could propose to her if you feel you are ready then u have more time to plan things and u wud feel more settled...i wish u the best of luck!
2006-06-30 16:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is keeping her from moving to NJ? Just have her move in with you temporarily while she finds a job and either helps you pay rent or finds her a place of her own to stay.
2006-06-30 16:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to come out here. Why does she need top come to you? I would be wary of this talent agent dude, he trying to get in her pants. P.S. Go Devils...
2006-06-30 16:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kingc99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cant! long distance = OVER!!!
Even u are ok not kissing her and touching her and stuff. GIrls are not Ok with it.
Relationship need phyical touch!!!!! the mental thing just not enough at all.
2006-06-30 16:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by ek_is_jou_pa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll forget her in about two months when you start chasing all that Jersey split tail.... don't even give her a second thought...
2006-06-30 16:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have her move in with you...otherwise, you are doomed
2006-06-30 16:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋