He tells me he loves me, but then when I see him everything changes. He is a guy that I swear has split personalties... He is the nice guy by himself, but around friends, he is a jerk. (also completely ignores me)
2006-06-30 08:54:33 · 9 answers · asked by oochagirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ditch the loser....he's obviously not that into you. you're just convenient to have around when he's got nothing better to do.
2006-06-30 09:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by u12fme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he´s pretty normal, he just needs to mature his own personality. Usually guys split their personalities like that, and he's probably like that because he's looking for acceptance in his group of friends. Nothing's up against you. He's probably just afraid that if he starts to behave romantically sweet and nice to you, later on when you're not around, and he's alone with his friends, he's gonna get badly teased, so he avoids that. It's really silly, I know, but that's how a men work.
Talk things through with him, guys are really that insecure about themselves.
Eventually if he develops true TRUE love with you, he'll overcome this, and he'll pay more attention to you even with his friends around.
2006-06-30 16:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by cucajoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have this misconception that showing affection in public isnt good. He is trying to be mr macho. Not a good thing for a relationship. I am having the same problem with my woman. In private she adores me and proclaims so much love. But in public she is so elusive and standoffish. I think they dont want others to know they are in a relationship so they can keep their options open. We deserve better.
2006-06-30 16:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simply a case of him being insecure about who he is. He has to put on a show for his friends because he is afraid to be himself for fear they won't like him or they will make fun of him. A guy like that doesn't deserve to be with a girl like you. He either steps up and lets the world know how he feels about you or he steps off and you find someone else.
2006-06-30 16:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he teasing you? do u really think he is a jerk, u mean he's a camelion? Just take time off and talk out issues with him at a tete-Ã -tete.Open up and let him voice out too. Don't waste your time chasing the wind.
2006-06-30 16:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by Is.emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys r like that. its just part if their immaturity. he might really love u but just wanna seem like a player around his friends. u have to let him know that u dont like how he treats u. ask him if he is with u because he loves u or because of his friends.
2006-06-30 16:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by ~~SUGAR*LIPS~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me girl, u don't deserve to have this guy then, even if u love him alot, he i not the one for you, u shouldn't be treated like that, a guy wit his girl is all da time, 24/7 not just alone, so yea, you desereve a better guy =)
2006-06-30 15:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by mychiqui93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what happens when you date young guys
2006-06-30 16:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if he was an animal, he'd be a BIPOLAR bear?
2006-06-30 16:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋