Well i really want to ask this girl out but here is the problem, i would ask her to dinner or something but i cant cook and there is no where to take her where i live. I would say to a movie but the closest movie theater is about 15 miles away and neither of us can drive alone, still have permits. I would say icecream but thats still pretty far away, 3 miles. All these places are on busy roads so its not ideal to walk to them either. I want to ask her out to but cant think of anything. O when i ask her out people said give her a single flower or something well no one grows flowers in my town in the open basically in there backyards where they arent seen and there is no flowershop. I dont want to ask her to just hang out at my house cause my parents are assholes and my house smells from them smoking. Can some one give me an idea?
Yeah its just a town by pittsburgh, no parks, nothing, just houses and roads, its right by lake erie but the beaches are shitty.
2006-06-30 08:53:12 · 21 answers · asked by helloboredom28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it is not in the country its just a small town that makes up i think 5 largest city in pennsylvania. It is the "rich" part of Erie county. The beach has all this trash on it and no sand. The only beaches that are not like that are at the pennisula. and thats in downtown Erie which is about 10-15 miles away.
2006-06-30 09:08:42 · update #1
Best advice on this one is: ask a friend who can drive and do a double date thingy. If this isn't possible, then save up your money and plan for a nice evening out in the future when you can afford to.
Keep in touch with her over the internet. Open a dialogue with her online if that is possible and keep that going until you can afford a date with her.
2006-06-30 08:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girls, for the most part love picnics. You dont have to get very fancy with the food. Just taking the effort to prepare something goes a long way. Maybe have one of your parents drive you to the grocery store. Pickup one of those rotisserie chickens and some side dishes from the deli. (take them out of the plastic store containers and put them in your own containers from home) Get a small watermelon and slice it up. Or a combination of fruits for a fruit salad.
A thermos of lemonade or a couple of her favorite soft drinks on ice will work for the beverages.
Find a nice quiet spot in a park or a clearing by a creek or river will work great. Scout out the location beforehand to make sure the ants, bees or mosquitos will not ruin it for you.
Early evening is a great time to do this. It will be a little cooler and nothing is better than spending time with a girl as the sun sets.
2006-06-30 16:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by rblaze55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you make some good points. Here's a thought. Write a poem about her. Doesn't matter good or bad. If she likes you at all, she'll be delighted. Ask to meet her at a library/park. Read her the poem. Then take turns reading from a book of poems that you just "happen" to have with you. Play her a tune on a guitar. Draw a pic of her. She'll love the attention - unless she has no interest at all in you, in which case, you're sunk anyway.
You need to find out if there is ANYTHING you share as a common interest to do or talk about until you are comfortable just talking.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-06-30 15:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. October 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems that you live in the middle of nowhere..:) but you can still be romantic and create a great evening for your date... find a nice place in your surroundings and go for a walk with her. then you can have a small picnic...(you don't need something special at all!). You could have some sandwiches with tea and some fruits... (strawberries with cream fits the most ;) ) . then you can both watch the sunset and just chat (some music would be nice, you can use a radio or sth like that). This girl should value your attention not the surroundings...:)
so in generally - try to think of sth romantic place that maybe could even become your "special place" :)
good luck!
2006-06-30 16:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by vai2te 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make some sandwiches and have a picnic. get a blanket go out in the yard or a field(sounds like you live out in the country). Right a poem or a funny story. if you draw, draw her a picture. Ask one of your neighbors if they grow flowers and if they will give you a couple for your date. Especially ask the women, they will think that is the most sweetest thing you could do for a girl. Just glaze at the stars and have meaningful conversations. Most girls like to just talk(about evereything). talk about the stars and if youo could go get a book from the library about the different shapes(such as dipper, the horoscope signs) and then you guys can try to pick them out.
2006-06-30 16:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsugakb24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! That is pretty bazaar that there is nothing around for miles, that sucks large.. Like the other people said take her to the beach for a picnic, walk through the sand bare feet enjoy each others company get to no one another more.
2006-06-30 16:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about a picnic or something in your own yard or hers... ? Spread a blanket out and make her a sandwhich it doesnt have to be fancy if she likes you she will still like you regardless of what you feed her its the effort that counts... you dont have to spend a whole bunch of money on her just treat her nice. Just ask her "would you like to hang out with me sometime" and if she says YES then go from there make plans WITH her and let her decide what she wants to do maybe she has a way to get around that you dont know about. You dont have to have it completely planned out before you ask her out let things just fall into place plans sometimes fall thru! :)
2006-06-30 15:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick nickthere must be a nice spot somewhere even in the back yard. Find it! and get yourself a pick nick basket and a blanket to sit on.A radio for some mood music a bottle of wine or something appropriate Then go for a bike ride I'm sure you can think of something.
2006-06-30 16:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by puzzled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go to the supermarket (have your mom take ya!) and get all of the fixin's for a fantastic picnic lunch and pick a spot to pre-set up there. Go get her and get to the area and surprise her. Maybe take along a silly game to play while you are there. Bless your heart for wanting to do something special for her....you sound sweet! Good luck~
2006-06-30 15:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about a picnic? Nothing fancy. Heck even a couple of peanut butter sandwiches and soda pop are better than nothing. It can take place anywhere. Maybe you could go over and have it in her backyard. Use your imagination. I have had picnics on my living room floor.
2006-06-30 15:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by pamela h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋