Ok Guys why are some of you so caught up in the notion of finding a virgin when you yourself are not virgins....just because a girl isnt a virgin doesnt mean you should throw it in our faces....question why so caught up in finding a virgin when your not virgins your self.
2006-06-30 08:49:55 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
we are all alike in someway
2006-06-30 08:50:41 · update #1
Mr.Broc I said some of you not all
sorry if this question offends im just wondering
2006-06-30 08:55:59 · update #2
once again guys some guys are like that
2006-06-30 10:23:37 · update #3
To me that is just sterotype-ism.
2006-07-09 18:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Steven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men generally prefer virgins as they want to be the first ones to have real sex. Women having multiple love affairs & sex do compare. Men don't wish to be compared with others by their wives. Mistresses, no problem. But wives should be first hand. Not a used one! That's their ideal. But they will settle for what they get finally.
To expect a virgin for a wife is not a crime or sin, is it?
If a man is promiscuous, the products will be delivered outside the house. If the wives are immoral, the children so got will fill his home. Is it not horrible to think?
Men don't get pregnant even if they lose their virginity & women have a great risk in this is the major drawback women have.
MEN & WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME! So, same rules won't apply.
2006-07-09 13:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with three virgins and it is WAY over-rated. The ONLY cool part about it is that you are forever the first one. No matter what happens in their lives, you were first. As far as satisfaction however, I think a bit of experience is the best way to go. I think young guys want virgins because guys are not sure how they,... umm "stack up" and if the girl is a virgin, she won't know if he is good, bad, big, or small.
2006-07-14 06:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men feel like an animal sometimes. By that I mean, in the back of their minds it is a dominant kind of thing. You are the first and since there can be only one first it's you.
I personally don't care what a woman has done so long as she doesn't have STD's. I still wear a glove.
So the bottom line is men feel a sence of ownership for doing this. I have felt that way only once, we never did get married and it pissed me off.
Some guys also like experience but I have no prefference.
Some men are just arrogant, chilish, pigs. Go for the one who doesn't ask you about your sexuality. He is the most sincere one.
2006-06-30 08:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by WDubsW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good point. It's an "ideal" or fantasy that is still held before us, even though we've surrendered our ideals long ago. LONG, LONG ago. It's a sad reality, believe me. I've lived long enough have appreciated the value of virginity by either gender as a virtue, and seen it all thrown away as I grew older and seen the actual practice of lost values in our culture. It's like thinking that women are so much more "pure" than men when it comes to sexual affairs, and then realizing, who do you think those men were having sex with except a MARRIED WOMAN, married to a different man. Men are just more upfront and obvious about their sexual desires. Women like to continue the fantasia that they see sex as something more "meaningful" than just physical pleasure. What a laugh! I've seen too much, first hand, to believe those folkloric fantasies anymore. I would, however, like to see us TRY (and it will take an concerted effort) to return to the "virginity rules" values. God Bless us all.
2006-06-30 09:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm NOT a guy, but guess what I asked a similar question, although it has nothing to do with sex. Check it out. The question goes like, "Why do some guys have this kind of mentality?" I was talking about their choice in beautiful women when they are neither good-looking nor handsome.
2006-07-13 19:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by CRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on guys, I don't give a care who I bed with.. I mean we was or are a virgin... Last year, I slept with a virgin and he was experienced. How? I don't know.. But some virgins are experienced, I don't know how.. but some are..
2006-06-30 09:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men with this idea of "virgin conquest" are just little boys with sexual self esteem issues. Look, if a guy is not confident in bed, he will naturally seek out those that are worse at it than he is , namely virgins. If you run across anymore of these guys just laugh at them. they are pathetic.
2006-07-14 02:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by jim w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simply because men will blow their load early the first time with a woman, and if she is a virgin they won't know the difference. More directly, they don't want the woman to be able to compare them with anyone else.
2006-07-14 05:08:45 · answer #9 · answered by sped1018 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is a challenge! Like getting points on this yahoo thingy! For No real reasoning. It's just a male competitive predator instinct that we keep a score card on and no matter how high the # is it still really equals ZERO!
2006-07-12 12:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by melvin m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never heard a guy say that he wanted a virgin
2006-07-12 10:06:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋