did he ever did like me ? or was he just seeking for my attention?

Question

in order to hook up a friend of mines with a guy i lied to be the one interested in him. However, i never told him that i was interested in him it was my friend who told him that there was a girl that wanted to meet him . We went on a date and we had a great time together. He would pay attention to me whenever I attended his gigs and we will talk on the phone . But mostly we hanged out . His behaivor really confused me because even tho he said he was not interested in meeting anyone or getting into a relationship even his cousin told me that he was not ready for anything One time he just dropped by to give me a hug and one time that my amp broke down and he volunteered to fix it for me. He even took me once to meet his father in mexico. he felled asleep on my lap many times. One time he asked me if i liked him and i just broke out laughing saying "what? we are just friends" and he never asked again. But he once told me girls with long hair were his weakness i have long hair.

i got tired of his games and then i found out his friend had feelings for me. I started dating his friend and since then everytime if he ever sees me around he is very distant. He was living with my bf for a while & i told my bf about his behaivor and he told me that he was like this to every girl. The thing is that he never spent so much time with a girl other than me and that is what made me feel special. My friend once promised me that if i was to have a bf he will never stop talking to me but once i dated his friend he did. I was one of the 1st girls to not kiss him and be all over him like all of his "fans" and other chiks. I think that i made the difference. I am not all that hot but sum ppl think i am pretty can it be that he just wanted me to be another one of his "groupies" falling for him?. or did he really had feelings for me?

Answer 1

I think he is nice to you and have feeling with you. Because you said "just friends", it may hold him up. You have to be clear of yourself that do you have feeling with him?

If so, why don't give a chance of you and him to be more closer?

If you sure you just want to be friend only, you should tell him more about that.

Don't be confused by yourself.

Joyce