are there any guys out there that arent jerks...that dont lie just to get in a girls pants....i mean all the nice guys out there arent realy nice theyre just faking it....i want to find someone who will be real with me...someone who isnt afraid to be theirself
2006-06-30 08:32:34 · 25 answers · asked by deziiarnez1114 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok..so for you few nice guys out there im sorry if i offended you with my question...and for those wondering i have a lot to offer, but you'd have to get to now me to find out what it is...
2006-06-30 08:49:21 · update #1
Yeah, there are actually some of us that still exist. But we're getting harder and harder to find. (and no, we're not ALL gay). But the reason we are probably so hard to find is that (at least in my case) we have been hurt/'burnt' so bad in the past that we have just 'given up'.
So.... a little background. Was told once that I was 'too nice'....
I'm NOT a 'momma's boy', have a great/stable/secure job, have all the 'toys' (hot tub, big screen, harley, etc..) am not ugly, great cook, good in bed, blah, blah, blah......but yet, still single. Why ?
Seems the majority of women out there AREN'T 'worth it'. I'm WAAAAAAAAY past the days of being a 'player', but it seems that women (NOT all) never move past that.
So, yeah.......there ARE good guys out there, but YOU have to find them; and unfortunately, you're going to have to 'kiss some frogs' first..........
Good luck ! Don't give up. Don't judge too quickly....you may get surprised.......
2006-06-30 08:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by barhopper 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are, I don't really know if I could speak for myself cause that would go for way too modesty on my behalf. But yeah, there are guys out there that aren't jerks,
I think that the problem is that since the 21st century general male has been labeled like "jerks", then, good guys really don't stand a chance cause many women wouldn't believe that they're really honestly and truly nice, and quite fitting to your needs.
You meet an honest, true good guy and eventually you'll start doubting, and they will have a hard time proving that they are.
The world moves fast, eventually you'll find one, and perhaps you won't even know he is one of the good guys!
2006-06-30 15:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by cucajoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like for every 100 guys you come across with, 1 guy will be a sweet one. AlI I can say is listen to your inner voice. Womens intuition. It get stonger as you tend to it and listen to it. Guys can be jerks but there are a lot of good guys. I can say it depends on where you go to meet them. Most of all be yourself and if somethign is not right about a guy and you feel he is not telling the truth then your probably right. Practice good decision making. Don't be bitter towards guys because of this common flaw in men. Love yourself,be happy alone, respect yourself and a good man will see that and love YOU for that.
2006-06-30 15:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by LO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you just have to feel them out. Date them for a few months if you catch them in lies or in scandalous situations then you know they are fakes. Within a years time you should know exactly what type of person they are. Start out as friends then slowly work you way from there.
2006-06-30 15:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsugakb24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking for a lot and you forgot to mention what you're willing to give up to meet this "nice guy".
Anyway, nice guys face extinction because:
a) the world isn't fair
b) nice guys are easily taken advantage of and they can grow bitter about it.
2006-06-30 15:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there are only a few nice guys out there and if you want to make sure they are nice when you date them, date them for like 2 years because that way, if they are mean, they probably would of showed it by then
2006-06-30 15:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by fallen_angel0722 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have friends that talk about getting with a different girl every week and it bugs me. my last relationship i went 8 months with nothing physical and i had a blast, i feel you dont need sex in a relationship, its just a possible added bonus. Problem is too many people have expectations and that also bugs me.
2006-06-30 15:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by darkarcher_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres some nice guys out there i mean i dont fake anything. i mean if you want to talk you should email me ko_ozzy20hondacivic@yahoo.com and see if i'm a nice guy.
2006-06-30 15:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a jerk
I don't lie just to get in a girl's pants
I don't fake anything
I can be real, and I'm not afraid to be myself.
There.... Now what do YOU have to offer??
2006-06-30 15:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by 1/6,833,020,409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that all the guys you have met are jerks,
but i'm offended that you think ALL guys are like that.
pehaps its you who needs to liten up a bit or just choose who you hang around with better.........BE-atch!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-30 15:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Aspartimine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋