i have a boyfriend who i Love very much but, just not like when we first got together. i don't want to dump him, but, i want him to dump me. what should i do, and why???
2006-06-30 08:16:35 · 10 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
what should you do? grow up
why? because u r a immature little girl who isn't ready to have a boyfriend if you resort to playing games like getting him to break up w/ you because you are too chicken to do it yourself. Grow up and give the guy some RESPECT!!
2006-06-30 08:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by mary r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can love the same way forever. I have been married for 25 years and we don't love each other the same way as we did in the beginning. In the beginning everything is new and exciting. Your getting to know each other and discover each other. The longer you are together the more the relationship evolves and the more it changes. No relationship can stay in the beginning and exciting stage. You should appreciate that you have been in the relationship longer than that first stage. Then you should nurture it and help it grow.
2006-06-30 08:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by nana4dakids 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that you dont want to be with him just be honest...and tell him, if you dont feel the same as you did when you first got together chances are he may feel the same....If theres love there and you're not sure about leaving...take a break and see what comes from that...
2006-06-30 08:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_bfly02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just end the relationship if you are not interested in him. Being mature and not playing games will save both of you a lot of headaches.
Besides, what you refer to fading is PASSION, not love. You still love him, but like all relationships, passion fades after a while. You better get used to this if you ever want a long-term relationship.
2006-06-30 08:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No relationship stays the way it is in the beginning forever. That's something you have to accept.
If you break up with him, be careful you don't fall into a pattern of breaking up with guys after the "honeymoon" is over. That could lead to a lot of pain for you.
2006-06-30 08:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by night_trekker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't feel the same any more than maybe you should try new things, join clubs together, maybe start a new sport together, write love notes.
you should read "the wedding" by nicholas sparks. it's the sequel to the notebook and it tells how noah and ally's son-in-law trys to get his wife to fall in love with him all over again.
2006-06-30 08:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by taytay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy in the relationship, maybe you should take a break from each other. Since you are the one who isn't happy, you should be the one to suggest it. Don't count on him to make that decision.
2006-06-30 08:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by lj1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be mature and have courage, do the right thing and be honest with him about your feelings, you may find he feels the same way. hopefully you two can break up and still be friends or at least without too many bad feelings.
2006-06-30 08:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But....if you love him then why do you want to break up w/ him??!!!
2006-06-30 08:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat on him.
2006-06-30 08:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by Jordan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋