How many of you belive that having sexual relations before marriage is morally wrong? Discuss
If you don't believe that it is morally wrong discuss why!
2006-06-30 08:14:12 · 15 answers · asked by Healthy Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For those of you who belive that sex before marriage is wrong . . .
Are you actually following what you belive in?
2006-06-30 08:18:26 · update #1
Yes I truly believe that sex before marriage is wrong simply because the Bible itself also say it is wrong... " Fornicators will not inheirt God's Kingdom." This is the word I believe and for this reason I try my best to uphold these words though I must admit that the tempation is so hard sometimes. Also not having sex before marriage also brings joy to both the husband and wife who both had no previous relations with anyone else and the next dont have to worry about catching anything from anyone. Im getting married in October and neither I nor my soon to be had any prior relations before our marriage in Oct. That way there will be only pleasant surprises come that night knowing we both truly belong to no one but each other.
2006-06-30 08:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by anshae2003 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think it's wrong but lets step aside from the biblical sense... think of how many ppl you're giving yourself away to... sexual relationships join two ppl as one... if you have sex w/ everyone you see... you've become one w/ everyone and haven't left the proper room for your spouse. it also will lead to comparing... you'll find yourself comparing your other sexual relationships to your spouse... sex should be after marriage because then it wont be a matter of "Oh God i gotta abort the baby" or anything like that... its hard to stop a way of life... if you're constantly seeking a fun sexual relationship and your spouse cant give it to you anymore... unfaithfulness will happen... i'm not telling you what to do, i just hope you make the right decision.
2006-06-30 15:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by So and so 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meh too each his own.
my dad always said, "do what you want, just dont be stupid about it"
isnt sex a big part of marriage, do you really wanna find out the night after your wedding that its not what you thought. wouldn't that make you afraid that maybe it was the wrong idea? people will say but if you love them it doesnt matter. but the way i see it, if your not enjoying the sex, or your spouse doesnt, there is gonna be problems early.
so there are pros and cons to both sides
2006-06-30 16:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by darkarcher_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ahve sex prior to marraige then yes it is wrong, but if you are in love with your partner there is no snse in waiting, you are making love not having sex. Besides the modern concept of marriage if fairly recent.
2006-06-30 15:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to wait, but i honestly think you should. even if you are truely in love with the person. marriage is a special thing and sex is one of the big perks. i mean what do you have to look forward to while being married if you've already screwed that person beforehand. especially if you don't last, then i think it would just makes things weirder between you and your partner.
2006-06-30 15:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by punk faerie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong biblically speaking. The bible considers fornication a sin and we will go to hell (if you believe in hell). But I still do it. I love sex and I think its the best thing in the world and if I have to die, I will put my life on the line for good sex. Only for good sex.
2006-06-30 15:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by beantheredonethat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe this because i want to keep my virginity for the special man i marry if God allows.
a man feels good when he knows he's the one who's had you first. and he feels even better when he knows that he's the only one that would have you. it's a very good feeling.
now in the biblical sense, God said that we are to keep ourselves pure for our husband/spouse.
don't know what you believe in so i gave you two of my thoughts from different sides of the society's mind.
hopefully this helped.
and yes i am following in what i believe in.
if u stand ur ground anyone can do it.
2006-06-30 15:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by GDK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its alright when u love the person... and yes before marriage can make sex boring after a while even if u try to spice it up..
2006-06-30 15:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong because its fun and exciting to do and why wait? if you use the right protection everything will be ok. some dont though and thats the problem with teens but thats there fault.
2006-06-30 15:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by Matthew Shlmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is morally wrong bcuz u r suppossed to give ur body to some1 who trully luvs u...some1 tht will wait for sex until marrige bcuz it is ur wishes is some1 tht truly luvs u. and if u do hav sex bfore marrige u will nvr kno how it would feel like to b chosen by some1 tht luvs u. ya i am.
2006-06-30 15:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by marissamutilated™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋