when i see female models struting their stuff or in bikinis on TV i get...uncomfortable. And i feel like kissing one of my friends. Is this natural? coz it's scaring me.
2006-06-30 08:10:56 · 44 answers · asked by Kira 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is 100% natural to be curious, that doesn't mean your a lesbian. If you experiment and decide that you only like women then you could label yourself as one. ALOT of women are attracted to other women...lets face it we are beautiful creatures. You have to do whats best for YOU, not anyone else, because at the end of the day...it's just you. Thanks...and good luck
2006-06-30 08:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Candy69 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Are you interested in guys at all? If so you may be bi? If guys don't peak your interests but watching the female models does, then you are a lesbian. It took me years to realize I was one. I dad to see two women kiss on TV to realize how much that affected me. I never felt a romantic draw towards guys. I dated a few and kissed and made out with them, because I was expected to. But none ever made me feel aroused. After watching the two women on TV Kiss it was like a light bulb going off. I spent a lot of time on the net looking for others who felt the same way and came to find that there are lesbians everywhere. That was 5 years ago.
So you have a crush on one of your friends too. This is perfectly natural for a "baby dyke" to develop a crush on a close friend before they realize they are gay. you might broach the subject with her to see what her opinion is on gays and Lesbians. There is the slight chance she is closeted about her feelings as well. I wouldn't suggest admitting your feelings for her. If she asks if you have felt attracted to women then answer truthfully. But don't tell her yes or no to feelings about her, unless she seems to feel the same way.
Hope that helps you some. You might want to check out http://curvemag.com/ It is a great lesbian entertainment magazine with an on line message board community.
2006-06-30 08:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sexuality is more of a spectrum. Some people are totally straight, others totally gay, but many fall somewhere in the middle -- they're mostly straight, but they have a "bit 'o gay" in them. It would seem you have some sexual feelings for women, and that is a-okay.
Perhaps you're a lesbian, or perhaps you've got a little "bi" in ya. Either way, it's all good. You seem young. College is an excellent time to experiment. Hook up with some girls, munch some carpet, see what you think. I know many women who are not lesbians who have had relationships with women. It ain't no big deal!
The one thing I warn you about: if you happen to live somewhere uptight, over-flowing with "Christian Morality" don't let your backwards friends, or your church or your parents fill your head with all kinds of crazy crap. Be yourself. The world's a great big place, with all kinds of interesting and kinky ****. Take it all in, keep an open mind, and don't let people make you feel guilty or weird 'cuase you think Christina Ricci is smokin' hot!
2006-06-30 08:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know if you are a lesbian or just curious until you actually go for it. If you like it then there is nothing wrong with that at all. If you don't then you will know you are not. I personally have been with women, but I seem to be more attracted to men. I guess I am just bisexual. Women are very sensual people and it really is a comfortable and enjoyable experience if you are with the right person! Hope this helps and don't think you are not normal!!
2006-06-30 08:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by Andi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a lesbian, never think that about yourself!
No one is born that why some people think they are but there not! Ask God say Jesus please help me control this and don't let me want to kiss them. Pray everyday about it and believe that he will do it and he will you will stop wanting to kiss them I promise. You just have to have paticents he might not answer your pray right away but don't worry he will and try not to watch the girls on TV when your friends are over there and sometimes girls look at other girls is because there seeing how the other girl looks and compares thereself to them.
Don't worry about it. BELIEVE ME UR NOT A LESBIAN! If you tell urself that then u will start to believe that just keep telling urself ur not a lesbian.
If you need me u can email me or put me on ur yahoo messager cute_n_proud2006@yahoo.com
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2006-06-30 08:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. I have the same reaction to female models strutting their stuff. I get uncomfortable and sometimes even an erection too. I KNOW I'm a lesbian trapped in the body of a man.
2006-06-30 08:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Georges 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think think having an urge to kiss one your girl friend should really make you a lesbian. However i firmly think you are bi curious.
I would suggest you tell your boyfriend about this, he may initially feel a little icky, but then get as excited about this as you are !!! Trust me. I had a girl who was so excited by women but then this is any guys 2 favourite fantasy!!!
So bottoms up. Take this as changing times.
Just go with the flow, young lady.
Cheers!!
2006-06-30 13:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens to girls sometimes. You may feel attracted to girls (which is normal for SOME girls...doesn't mean they're gay.) but are you EVER attracted to guys? If not, you may be a lesbien which you may just have to exept. Have you gone through puberty already? Are you in the process or haven't yet? If you are or haven't yet, then maybe your just interested in the body and the fact that they have curves and you're curious. Once you get those curves, the feelings should go away...if they don't...you may be a lesbien. It's all about being curiouse...
2006-06-30 08:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone was thought or being with their own sex at least once or twice. It can be uncomfortable thought. But you really need to think long and hard about what you are i interested and where you are willing to take those feelings. I hope everything works out for the best.
2006-06-30 08:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by taramara12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm really depends o your age. Have you ever acted on these feelings. I would say at this point yuo are "bi-curious". You shouldnt have to pressure yourself into fitting in a label, especially when it comes to sex. I honestly belive the women body is much more beautiful than the mans. Sorry guys. But boobs, curves, and a$$ are just sexy. Dont get me wrong men are sexy as well.
2006-06-30 08:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by ~desi~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋