im tired of dating and all those sh*ts! after sex, they will just leave u. is there any ways on how I can make them fall in love with me?
im gay
2006-06-30 08:02:59 · 21 answers · asked by kaan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im tired of dating and all those sh*ts! after sex, they will just leave u. is there any ways on how I can make them fall in love with me?
im gay
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2006-06-30 08:18:53 · update #1
I'm sorry you are having such a hard time finding love - it has nothing to do with being gay, and everything to do with being human. My son had the same problem, as do most young men and women.
You can't "make them fall in love" with you. It either will or won't happen. Perhaps you need to feel worthy of love, and set boudaries for yourself where the sex is concerned. Whether we are gay or straight, if we seem "needy" it scares the other one away.
Take a bit of time to identify what you really are looking for in a relationship - obviously it is not just sex (and that's a good thing!). Be respectful about yourself, and show it by not sharing your physical love until there is a real spark of emotional connection. At the very least, you will not end up feeling used - at the most, you will develop a good sense of self-esteem - a very positive and sexy quality!
Love will come - give it time, and don't use the physical sex as a gateway to love - it doesn't work that way - gay or straight.
Good Luck!
2006-06-30 08:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but there is no such thing as a love potion. It sounds like you let them have the cookie without finding out about the person who is taking the cookie.I say date a guy for a little while before you let him even get his hand in the cookie jar if you do so you will give yourself enough time to find out if he is a real jerk or a keeper.
2006-06-30 08:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by blinkblinkme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's something touching about a man who appreciates the existential angst of women. Sorry dude, you can't.The best you can do is keep hoping and meet people with common interests.
One strategy: give up dating, invest in yourself, and wait to stumble on someone at a place where you are comfortable, happy and at ease with yourself (NOT on an initial few dates)
2006-06-30 08:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Alex G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question. Is there some equivalent of "love potion #9?" Are the guys you are dating too young for you? Why are they leaving you? How are you treating them?
2006-06-30 08:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i have 2 say is if u like some 1 u should do what eva it takes 2 get him all u have 2 do is let that person know how u feel. honesty is the best way 2 any 1's heart
2006-06-30 08:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by princesspooh1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay is basically a euphemism for crazy. Your chance of finding a gay person who is normal enough for a good relationship is almost zero.
They exist of course. But the gay community has been filled to the brim with freaks that, realistically, you won't find one.
2006-06-30 08:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abandon the homosexual lifestyle. You're actually straight. Homosexuality is a myth. It's just what some dudes do when they are to lazy to find a nice woman or they are diseased and have too much respect for women to give them their dreaded plague.
2006-06-30 08:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by fun.headgiver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish there was a love potion. lol. but seriously you cant make someone love you. this is something that is an emotional connection between two ppl. attraction and if they are not attracted to you there will not be anything. we learn through each relationship what we are really looking for
2006-06-30 08:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It smelled like turpentine and looked like India ink. Love Potion #9.
2006-06-30 08:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love potion #9.
2006-06-30 08:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋