I was dating this man for 6 months and things were great then he just left. Said he had issues to work out and could not see me any longer. Now 7 months later he shows up and says he still loves me and wants me to be his wife!
I would like someone to tell me why he thinks he should have a second round of frisbee with my heart?
2006-06-30 08:02:33 · 10 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it if he loved you he wouldn't have left u in the first place. You will get a divorce if u marry him he said that so he could have u back because the girl he was with probably left him and thats why his coming back to u. There is a guy out there for u don't setly with him. He will just cause u pain. Take my advice there is someone far better than him!
P.S. Don't trust a guy that say trust me!
2006-06-30 08:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of women I know turn around and give their bf or husbands a second chance after cheating or pulling crap like what you descibe.
So, I guess, most guys don't figure you owe them a second chance, but expect to get it because most women will. Because they 'love them so much', or 'know they'ver really changed this time' or some other equally stupid response.
If a guy truly expects it, he's so full of himself that you should conisder yourself lucky that he left you for some other chick (excuse me, issues he had to work out) in the first place.
So, unless he was in rehab, or undergoing treatment for some serious health issue...tell him to take a flying leap off a tall building.
2006-06-30 08:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply because you let him. He probably hasn't found anything better than you, so now he's decided that he'll settle for you. Lots of people do this and I think it's pretty sad. You end up in a relationship where the man is not really happy because he will always think there's something better and now he's stuck with you, while the woman ends up with a man who doesn't really love her and she's oblivious to it.
2006-06-30 08:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what his problem is, how could he expect to just walk out of your life with a lame excuse and have the audacity to talk about he wants to marry you? Maybe he thinks that since he came back with a marriage proposal that you would feel pity and take him back. Don't do it, if you like maybe you two should just date for now until you really get to know him because he seems too flaky
2006-06-30 08:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Love-Me-Only 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone deserves atleast a second chance...there are some important issues tht need to be taken care of so the person tht he loves will not get hurt.so he probably thought tht he would hurt u...and also he probably wanted to marry u but didn't want to put a financial burden on u while work wasn't going tht well.
2006-06-30 08:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was seeing someone else, she dumped him, and now he's crawling back to you. Or maybe, he was seeing someone else and realized that your better for him. Who knows??? You have to decide if you want to give him another chance or not. The ball is in your court.
2006-06-30 08:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't think " Whats good for the goose is good for the Gander".
If you wanted a second chance do you think he would give it to you?
2006-06-30 08:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by montana d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they think a woman will take them any time no matter what they do to you they hurt us and want us to take them back in a heart beat i would tell him to go away
2006-06-30 08:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're taking the time and effort to ask this question should be your first clue.
2006-06-30 08:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by U. N. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you deserve a pretty detailed explanation as to what the hell he was doing the past several months...
...then tell him "no"
2006-06-30 08:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋