im in love with this guy thats 17, and im 14. he loves me too but im not shure if we should be together bc. of the age diff. ... and weve been talking about sex reciently ... am i too young? what do i do? if i love him should i be with him & have sleep with him?
2006-06-30 07:41:51 · 14 answers · asked by BryNaNa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think the age difference is much of a problem but you should probably think about the sex thing a lot more before you do anything
2006-06-30 07:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guts would like it, the hormones would like it yet what about your head? i'm sorry in case you do not opt to hearken to it yet right here's the deal. you're stupid for even wondering about it because it really is an exceedingly undesirable concept. For a commence you're lower than age and he's not. this signifies that he might want to get into a great number of problem with the regulation because what you're speaking about is prohibited. it really is prohibited as a way to ward off youthful women from being fascinated about sexual sex that they are bodily, mentally and emotionally no longer waiting for. There must be a regulation because 14 12 months previous women like you aren't any more smart adequate to entice close a thanks to safeguard themselves and picture they are waiting. moves have consequences and each and every of the consequences in case you do this are going to be undesirable. If he's a good man or woman he will understand you for keeping no and if he's not nicely you may have had a fortunate get away. Your father and mother care about you. they have not presented you as a lot as betray their believe like this.
2016-10-14 00:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by tenuta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young, definitely. Under the law, you have to be 16, or he's guilty of statutory rape, and could go to prison if the two of you get caught. Don't take chances, and don't take the chance of getting pregant so young, either--I just finished grading a standardized test from Kentucky where the kids were asked if teenage pregnancy was a good thing, and I got some real eye-openers. Kids were talking about how their friends (or they) got pregnant, and how now they don't have money or time for anything but the baby. They can't get a good education, they don't qualify for well-paying jobs, and their friends are just drifting away because they don't have anything in common anymore. Please, spare yourself (and him).
2006-06-30 07:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by cross-stitch kelly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing.. Here's what i did though: Three years ago he was a senior i was a freshman and i was madly in love with him and vice versa, but the age difference kept us from being together. Well kept in touch through the years and finally i'm turning 18 so we are working on us being a couple (FINALLY). But we did have to wait ( for everything including sex)...And if he loves you your guy will too!
2006-06-30 07:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Chocolate Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are much too young to even consider sex. Don't waise this period of your life and turn adult so quick you will regret it later. Plus your body and mind are not ready for this step. It is proven that people who have sex so early end up having an unstable personal life later. Do you want to always break up with many many guys and always feel insecure? You'll think relationships are meant to end up in break-up.
2006-06-30 07:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love each other like u say u do then he'll wait for u to turn a llegal age...... Also Keep in mind that if u've never done anything then he might just be trying to take u'r Virginity for u ..... guy do that all the time and then after u know what will happen He'll Leave u sad and heart broken...... Good Luck Life is hard
2006-06-30 07:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are too young. It is OK to have relation with other people and to love, but no sex. The consequences are too much for you. I believe you are smart enough to know. Respect yourself and people will respect you.
2006-06-30 07:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u can be bf and gf, with out having sex. wait until ur 16. i ur relationship can't last for that long, he's not worth loosing ur virginty. about the age difference. ithink 3 years is fine
2006-06-30 07:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most relationships at that age do not work out after one leaves highschool. My advice would be to trust your instincs if you are feeling pressured to have sex and it makes you uncomfortable then dont do it.
2006-06-30 07:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to prison and I will be happy when he does.
2006-06-30 07:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋