my boyfriend just told me hes gay ,,, WHY DO A,LL MY BF TURN GAY OR CRAZY and how can i change it
2006-06-30 07:35:59 · 46 answers · asked by catgirlofspokane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gay guys are hot, it's not your fault. To avoid this stop dating guys that are thin, stylish and intelligent. That will avoid 90% of gay men.
Sorry hon, it is nothing you are doing.
2006-06-30 07:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sorry!! :(
First, maybe your boyfriends decided or were thinking about being gay long before they met you and even if they decided they wanted to be gay while y'all were going out, their desicion couldn't have been about you.
Second, ALL boys are crazzzzzzzzy, maybe your boyfriends were just a little crazier!LOL!
Lastly, you can't change the fact some of your boyfriends are gay or crazy. Maybe you are just looking in the wrong places. One day though, YOU WILL find your dream guy (who is not gay or crazy), and when you do, you will laugh all about those crazy and gay boyfriends of yours!!!
2006-06-30 07:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't that suck? Did you know that woman outnumber men 1 to 4? On top of that, half the men are usually undatable or easy to settle. After that factor, the other half are taken. So now your cut down to 1/4 of what you were before. But wait, now half of those men are gay. So your left with... like what 20 men in the world?
It disgusts me. Men are selfish and sexual creatures. They turn gay because it's eccentric during the young ages. The worst is to find out your husband is gay. It's becoming more and more often. They really need to cancel that queer eye show.
2006-06-30 07:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On a sheet of paper make columns for every boy friend you have had that turned out to be gay. Put one of their names at the top of each column. List all of their characteristics that you can think of. Particularly the things about them you liked most. What most attracted you? Compare and see what things about them were the same. Then avoid guys that have the same things going on.
2006-06-30 07:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. That must be really horrible. Maybe your finding these guys at the wrong place or something. Try hanging out at new places. This is probably just a couple of bad choices. Things will get better. Don't lose hope.
2006-06-30 07:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be attracting all the gays and crazies huh...
a kinda grace in "will and grace" thing? (i miss that show)
maybe you should start looking for love at different places than you are used to.
I told this girl friend of our that she can't find a man of her dreams in a gaybar. That's just a parallelism, but I think you know what I mean.
2006-06-30 07:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by elymendoza1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something about you that attracts that type of man. A social worker once told me, the mentally healthier you are the more healthy person you attract. Maybe you should sit down with a counselor and figure out what kind of "signals" you are sending to attract this type of man.
2006-06-30 07:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, stop dating those types of guys.
You can not make someone straight, they either are gay or they are straight... some are bisexual, but its a thin line there when it comes to guys.
Stop getting into relationships so quikly and take the time to get to know someone better.
2006-06-30 07:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by *meh* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ditch the cat ears do the finger test a man won't let it happen
2 if he loves any of your clothing perfume panties and likes going shopping he gay look for signs
2006-06-30 07:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor thing... It's not you, you've just been really unlucky.
Maybe try and find men who are secure in themselves - less likely to be unsure about their sexuality or mentally disturbed. Though if you could find out a sure fire way to do that you could probably write a guidebook and make a fortune..!
2006-06-30 07:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by charleymac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kinda made me laugh, sorry. I know some females like that. It may just be the type of guys you are attracted to, which is something you would have to change yourself. Do you like the metrosexual aspect of men?
2006-06-30 07:38:23 · answer #11 · answered by kaliraized 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋