my bf and 1 of my friends(but not a very good 1) had a thing about a year ago where they were in love and unseperable and now when we arnt spending time together he is in her town hangin out with 'his buddies' but i go to school and she tells me that they have been hangin out 24-7 should i be worried?
2006-06-30 07:14:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you should be worried, from what you are saying he's lying to you and if he's lying to you obviously he can't be trusted. Have you confronted him on who he spends his time with? Open the lines of communciation up and ask him, if he admits to spending the majority of his time with her, open up another can of worms and ask him if he still has feelings for her. You'll never know unless you ask!
2006-06-30 07:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to trust your bf, if he is up to no good the truth will out sooner rather than later, but if he is being faithful you don't want to ruin what you've got. Has he been unfaithful in the past? Or is it the girl you are worried about? She might just be playing mind games.
2006-06-30 14:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by bertha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's obvious you should be worried because if u say he was in love with this woman one point in time, then u should talk to him about it, let him know how you feel, I can tell you are a bit worried, and it's nothing wrong with that. Just be careful and know what's going on, good luck hun
2006-06-30 14:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by SuzzyLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him and if he has given you no reason not to, then no don't worry. Worrying and mistrusting someone will just push them into the arms of the other person. Now, if he has lied to you before, if he has given you reason not to trust him, then I think you should confront him about it. Tell him how you feel and let him know that you don't appreciate him hanging around with his ex and not telling you or lying to you about it. If he has nothing to hide, he will be upfront and honest with you.
2006-06-30 14:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by kayceekitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear. Ur in school, how could they have been in LOVE? I think u need 2 ask him and try 2 find out the truth cuz either way 1 of them is lyin and u need 2 know who and y. Good luck and whoever is lyin get rid
2006-06-30 14:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sexy D♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES.... you should really talk to him about it...i guess if that doesnt work then it all has to do with if u trust him enough to believe him...keep looking for signs just in case and if worse comes to worse just remember there are always other guys and one day u will find th eright one...good luck and be happy no matter what......
2006-06-30 14:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Amz87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it. She might be telling you that to cause you to worry...but then again, maybe it's true. If you cannot trust him, the two of you should not be together. Talk to him, and then decide if you feel you can believe him or not. If you believe him, then let the issue go...if you do not, then let him go...
2006-06-30 14:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should definitly question this. but make sure that you ask him and not you girlfriend. she might be lying to you and if she is you can't trust her.
if your guy says that he is not hanging out with her try asking if you can go and hang out with him and some of his friends sometimes too. just make sure that you ask to come with him and that he does have the option to say no. if you force it he will be angry with you. whereas if he brings you with him sometimes then you will get a piece of mind that your girlfriend is not there as well as that your man is willing to prove it.
not to mention that time spend with your guy and his friends can teach you alot about your man as well as make your relationship stronger.
2006-06-30 14:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Butterfly Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should worry about, that your bf, doesn't tell you and you have to find out it from HER not HIM!!! I think you should be a little worry, maybe there is nothing serious between them... But you have to talk about it with your bf.
2006-06-30 14:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ramona A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your friend trying to break you and your bf up by making you jealous? What does your bf say? If you can't trust the bf he is not worth having.
2006-06-30 14:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by davi h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋