on line dating issues?

Question

I was marrried for twelve years , my ex left me for someone else. I met a guy on line dating and we hit it off right away. We took down our profiles and got pretty intense right away. A month in, I felt him pulling back. I checked and sure enough his profile was back up. I questioned him and he said he was unsure about us because I seemed jealous of his kids, I said no,I'm not just communicate when you need time with them and it's fine. (I got mad because he just disappared one weekend.) We continued but I went out with someone else beacuse his profile was up. I couldn't think about anything but him, so I stopped seeing guy number two. We had a great date then he cancelled two others at the last minute. I confessed all about the other guy, and how all I could think about was him. He said reason he cancelled was he knew about the other guy. We talked, I told him I want to be with just him. He said he does love me, is confused but wants a fresh start for us. I agree. Do I trust

Answer 1

That's a tough one. I don't like the fact he back off in the first place to me that is not a good sign. If you see him again don't fall so fast maybe you are falling to fast and it is making him pull away. Ypu have to get him chasing you. My gut feeling move on.

Answer 2

You are looking for love without getting over your husband. You need to slow down before you get yourself into more trouble. With a baby on the way, you need to think about the baby first, not about sleeping around with a new guy so you can feel loved and have self worth.

I beg you not to abort your baby. It is not your baby's fault that your husband cheated on you- nor is it the baby's fault that you cannot survive alone...

Answer 3

Your too temperamental! Once again, you're not having fun. Things happen for a reason, I think the guys had somebody already!