2006-06-30 06:51:13 · 10 answers · asked by theblackwitch 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i don't think you are being unfair, bringing up kids is hard work. if he is the father of your children, no matter if you are a couple or not he still has a responsibility to help raise the kids. good luck.
2006-06-30 07:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by rubytuesday. 4 · 6⤊ 5⤋
You sound like a very shallow self centred spoilt brat. Start thinking about your children and your boyfriend instead of your own slf gratification. How will your children feel if they see him as a father figure, or even just a fixed point in their lives, and then you rip that away from them just because you can't grow up enough to buckle down and build a real relationship? Being a family is hard work, and you should not use people just because you are too lazy to do that. Stop thinking about yourself so much and grow up. How would you feel if he dumped you just cos you are boring? (And you probably are)
2006-06-30 08:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fancying and loving him are 2 different things.Do you love him?? Don't stay with him just because you want him to take care of your kids,thats selfish.I've bort 3 kids up on my own without any help.If you leave him i am sure that he will still care for your children as any good father should.Stop thinking of yourself and put this poor man out of his misery
2006-06-30 08:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by jomom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they his kids? I was in a similar situation and ended it with my childs father, I felt a lot better, a lot of weight was lifted off my shoulders although everone was telling me to stay with him as I would find it really hard alone, it is hard, but in a way easier as I don't have teh stress of being in a bad ralationship, would your family help you out? us women are so much stonger than men and we always pull through. Also perahps your kids ould be happier if you were, being in an unhappy realtionship they will see it.
2006-06-30 06:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by Soso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be able to look after your kids yourself unless you have a mental or physical condition that does not allow this. If so then contact your doctor who may be able to find someone who can help care for you and them. If you don't love him any more then say good bye. my parents stayed in a marriage for 15years without love and it almost screwed us kids up. You don't want this for your kids, believe me!
2006-06-30 09:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by wolfstorm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice and fair. Break up with him and find yourself another babysitter. You can't pretend to still be into him just to get him to care for your kids.
2006-06-30 06:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Gabi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time 2 call it a day then, dont keep him around as a babysitter cause it will only end in heartache ALL round. :)
2006-06-30 07:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by missilibi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so shallow.I brought my 2 kids up without help from anyone
2006-06-30 06:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being unfair by just using him for you own benefit. Be honest with him and sort yourself out.
2006-06-30 06:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by gp200dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it, he'd rather you be truthfully about how you feel. If they are his kids he will still care for them.
2006-06-30 06:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋