I am married and want to have sex ALL THE TIME. I am addicted. Husband doesnt want to have sex that much.?

Question

Any advice?

Answer 1

I think he should rent you out - you get satisfied, he gets left alone and you both get some nice $$$$

Answer 2

This is not good because it can bring on other problems in your relationship. If you're not fulfilled at home it can cost you to seek an outside partner which is not good either because you're married.

Maybe you can do somethings to turn him on if he allow you to be you. Fixed a platter of fresh fruit with some wine, feed him why you give him a bubble bath....go to the living room on a bear rug in front of a fireplace and massage each other and both of you free your minds. Bring out the freak in each other.

Maybe others can share some thing you can do to bring out the freak in him. As far as you wanting sex all the time, it's nothing wrong with you. Good luck and hang in there. Try not to allow sex to ever bring your marriage to an end.

Answer 3

Tell him he's lucky because most women aren't like that. I'm the same way and my husband kept telling me I was going to get tired of sex. LOL Yeah Right! Get it when you can and other than that use a toy or just let the need build up so it's better and more passionate the next time you do it.

Answer 4

I, too, want sex more than my bf. It has not always been that way, because in the beginning, we BOTH wanted it all the time. Now when we go to bed sometimes, he says he just wants to cuddle and talk. He says that is also very intimate to him. I guess all guys aren't about one thing, and there is intimacy on a deeper level and shown in different ways. If what you mean by all the time is obsessive, then I would look more into yourself than to him. Are you looking for validation from him through sex? Talk to him, how is it making you feel that he truns you down?

Answer 5

You cannot force your spouse into sexual activity. It is not fair and disrespectful. I suggest buying some toys to quell your lust. However, you may want to look to see how addicted you are to sex. If your life revolves around setting up the next time you have sex, then you may have a problem. May help to talk about it to your husband or psychiatrist.

Answer 6

How long have u guys been married? is this a new occurance, is he gay? does he have someone else? these r the questions i think u should b asking. Have ah chat with your husband, find ut what the real problem is, don't give up on sex with him & buy toys yet. good luck

Answer 7

Perhaps your problem is that you don't have enough orgasms with your husband. According to latest medical research, only sexual intercourse and orgasm with a partner gives you complete sexual satisfaction and makes the sexual desire go away for a while.

Other forms of sex and lack of orgasm only increase the sexual desire. And this may be why you have this problem.

I think that lack of sexual understanding and skill among both men and women is common. And the only way to resolve this problem is through sex education for adults.

The sex education kids get in school doesn't teach them anything about how to please their sexual partner well. And even people who got sex education in school often remain ignorant about how to please well their sexual partner in bed.

Perhaps you should encourage your husband to read some books about the theory and practice of sexually pleasing your partner. The Kama Sutra is one such book written by ancient people of India. And you can read it online at this link:
http://www.bibliomania.com/2/1/76/123/frameset.html

Answer 8

Get a vibrator first.

Ok, that will take care of immediate issues...

Secondly, your husband is your husband, nto your personal sex slave, having a healthy sexual relationship means finding common ground with both parties...

Try going to an addicts meeting and go see a counsler...

Hopefully that will help...

Answer 9

If it isn't one its the other...I always wanted it...and then I met someone who was willing to satisfy that...now its not a challenge and she wants it more often than I ...back off...just enough for your husband to recognise its not a sure thing, that way he will pursue you more and its the best when both put out equal effort.

Answer 10

All I can suggest is that you discuss the situation with him and tell him of your need and work things out together. Do not go out and seek others as the marriage will definately fall apart.

Answer 11

Just do it safelly. Ask how come your husband feel's that way, it might be a hormornal problem, or a relegious belief ethier way you can work it out by talking clamly, and negotaite each other's want's.