I'm independant and kinda tough, but when im setting alone in my room all the little things that I'm thinking of brings me to tears. Especially relationship matters, and basicly stuff about my life.
2006-06-30 06:29:09 · 12 answers · asked by rawwkinfool 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
A tricky thing happens in the brain when we feel all kinds of emotions. Chemical reactions in the brain cause us to almost crave certain emotional responses. Some people begin to develop an "addiction" to certain emotions, when their emotional responses conrtol the everyday thought pattern.
Perhaps if you see the documentary called "What The Bleep Do We Know?" you will gain some more insight into the issue of controling your way of thinking. I also icluded a link in the resource box which has very helpful information about how to help control how we internalize events that happen in our lives.
I hope you find this all to be helpful, and good luck with all.
2006-06-30 07:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by ccMarie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear one
Being independent is a never easy matter; you live by yourself and workplace seem the only place for you to socialize. Often people don't have time for you to offer you a rather warm friendship.
I sense that there are so much you want to have it in life, yet at the current stage you seem out of reach. To love and to belove is the very thing we all struggling with. And sometimes, it pains us to think that we are all alone and no one care.
Relationship is the most complicate yet at the same time, simple thing that every human being has to deal with. It is not a matter that can handle it easily by one man's power.
You seems want to know more about relationship, and you may have a lot of questions in your mind on this matter. I would like to help you and bring you to the insight of your situation, so that you can have a clearer picture of your current stage. It will be your choice to continue this with me, of cause I cannot grantee what you will hear is something you want to hear. But you need someone to help you, and I love to offer that assistance.
Sonny
2006-07-01 02:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exercise! Endorphin, a hormone released while working out is basically the "positivism hormone". It'll help you see matters from a different perspective and will also benefit your looks which consequently will boost your self steam. Move, try working out outdoors, just walking in the park for 1 hr, at your own pace, no hurry whatsoever. Try it!
2006-06-30 13:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by GeorgyPorgy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's called lonely. You need to take a long hot bath with candles and do what makes you feel real pretty. Pamper yourself, then go shopping, stop for a nice cup of latte and a salad, then call a friend and go out for a while. I've been there done that and my plan works...Good Luck
2006-06-30 13:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...I HOPE I COULD HELP YOU OUT...
I NO ITS QUITE HORROSOME THINKING WHAT U LIKE AND DONT HAVE IT AND SHED TEARS...
I DIDN'T GET ABOUT WHAT U'VE WRITTEN ABOUT RELATIONSHIP MATTERS...DID U MEAN BF OR GF??? WELL...I COULD SUGGEST U TO TAKE OF FOTO OF THAT RESPECTED PERSON AND TALK TO THE PERSON...IMAGINE THAT PERSON IS BESIDES U....
IN SUCH MATTERS U HAVE U "IMAGINE" THINGS TO KEEP URSELF HAPPY...
NEXT POINT....TEARS....WHY DO U SHED TEARS???WHY??? DOES IT BOTHER YOU???
WHAT BOTHERS YOU??? ASK URSELF....IF U GOT THE ANSWER FOR IT....RECOLLECT THINGS CONNECTING IT....U NO....WELL....WHAT U DONT HAVE IS LUCKY....WHAT U HAVE IS MORE LUCKY......JUST LIKE THAT!!!
DONT THINK ALL WHATS AROUND U IS EVERYTHING...FACE THE WORLD....SMELL IT...SMELL THE FREEDOM....FEEL THE SENSE THAT PEOPLE ARE THERE, SOME WHOME U NO AND SOME WHOME U DONT.....THOSE LIL THINGS MIGHT MAKE U HAPPY AND MORE KOOL AND MORE "TEARLESS"....
HOPE U LIKED WHAT I'VE WRITTEN...
2006-06-30 13:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by -Doll- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello my name is aman.
The same thing had happened with me before couple of years.im 16 now but i have recovered from sensitivness.You just forget the bad things wich happened in ur life just concentrate on ur studies,activities or have fun with ur friends.Thing about the time when u enjoyed very much and look forward to do very good in ur life.
bye
2006-06-30 13:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not 2 let things bother u. just hold in the tears and do something to get ur mind off of it. maybe u need a hobby. somthin that needs concentration
2006-06-30 13:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by smarty_pants817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at your sensitivity as a gift. I know that sometimes it totally sux but hell think of the bright sides to it! :)
2006-06-30 14:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by curious1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get beat up in society...that'll toughen you up.
Examples: Work construction, start a fight in a biker bar, work in a fast food joint....
2006-06-30 13:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by Gravy Czar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the life easy and don't think a bout Little things.don't let them to come to your mind.do exercise,read books, you are stronger than what you think.believe it deeply...
2006-06-30 13:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by sherri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋