We're both so closed and we love to share about anything... especially about sex, how we "perform" on bed, and how we "satisfy" our guys when make love...
Some people said to me that I'm kinda freak by doing that... why? I mean I love her, really love her... I've stopped considering her as my boyfriend's sister long time ago... I've considerd her as my OWN sister! My boyfriend is going to propose me soon, so she is MY sister-in-law! Besides, I talk about sex with her... not have sex with her... although, sometimes I fantasize about her while masturbating... LOL!! ;)
What do you all think then? Am I really freak or weird or something here...?
2006-06-30 06:18:59 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is absolutely nothing wrong with sharing your life's experiences with any friend, DQ Noa. Your step-sister is your friend. Share all you want with her.
Fantasizing is not real. It's fantasy, just as the word says. As long as you keep it in your fantasy world, you can fantasize about anything you want. (It's your fantasy... why would you want to restrict your own fantasy? It wouldn't be much of a fantasy then, don't you think?)
Best wishes for your future life with your fella.
2006-06-30 06:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a little bit close to the edge. Is your sister-in-law really pretty? Ask yourself why you think you fantasize about her. Do you find yourself routinely fantasizing about other women? What is the nature of these fantasies? If it's just fun, and they'll worry about it. Just be honest with yourself and ask yourself if you're rationalizing what you feel. The answer lies inside you not in yahoo answers. What do you think? Are you just having fun with something pleasant or are you being a sleaze? You say in one part you think of her as your own sister, but most people don't masturbate about their own sister. The more I think about this the more I think something is going on. Where are you going with this? How to you feel about the guys in your life?
2006-07-11 19:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust and believe you are not a freak you could be doing alot of other crazy things. for one it is a different relationship between a brother and a sister. it is easier to tell stuff like that to your sister than it would be to tell your brother. plus i truly doubt he wants to hear about you having sex with your boyfriend!LOL! since you don't have a sister (you don't have A sister,do you?) anyway you are able to have that confidant, friend, and sister to talk to. and now the big question!!!!!! what's good with the fantasies!!!!!! SMILE!!! this may mean that in the back of your mind you think about what you two talk about and that intrigues your intellect, or you have some gay tendencies!!! trust there is nothing wrong with that i am definitely bias! only because I'm gay! one tip though, DON"T DO YOUR BROTHER"S GIRLFRIEND!!! NOT COOL! you seem like a cool person and you definitely don't want to compromise your relationship with her or your brother. so if you ever decide to experiment definitely do it with someone else and then you can gossip about it with her!!!!! that's what makes it cool!!! I HOPE MY ADVISE IS HELPFUL! GOOD LUCK! AND CONGRATULATIONS ON THE PROPOSAL!
2006-06-30 06:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by peachez1008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all you need to consider something.
If you're talking about how you perform sex with your man, that's her brother. Why would she be interested in hearing about how you have sex with her brother? Does she get off on hearing me tell her about sex with her brother? That is wierd.
You can be a freak, you can be proud to be a freak all you want. But there is such a think as personal privacy, and even a freak should know where to draw a line.
To me, sex is not a topic of conversation with my sister in law. It's really none of her business how I have sex with her brother.
Find something else to talk about with her, that sounds a little too much like incest to me. She might be getting off hearing that from you about sex with her brother and that sounds sick.
Mistake number one in any family situation is you telling "your business" to the family. Keep it private between YOU and YOUR MAN! It's really none of her business.
Next.. you'll be on here talking about how you slept with your sister in law, and you won't be called a freak then, you'll be called trash.
2006-06-30 06:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by alwaysbombed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this question. But I'm wondering about the condition of your boyfriend's sister if she can listen to DETAILS about her brother's sex life and not be sick.
I'll bet you make her anxious/sick and she's hoping that he doesn't marry you so that she won't have to be involved in disgusting, uncomfortable conversations with you for the rest of her life. Poor girl. And talk about not respecting your man...I think he's the WEIRDO for wanting to marry a girl like you.
And you say that "some people said to me that I'm kinda freak by doing that" ...how many people are you gossiping with? How old are you?
2006-07-13 20:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by J9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not weird, or a freak, you're just doing what sisters do. Sisters are such a gift! I have six...imagine the conversations WE have. Some of them are demure but a couple of them are BOLD. I pretty much am willing to share anything with them as long as they promise to keep it between us and not blab to the men. Keep having fun! No shame in your special connection.
2006-06-30 06:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't freak. It is nice to have some one to talk to to like that! My sister-in-law is my best friend and I can tell her anything. And I have two sisters that I am not even 1/2 as close with.
Fantasizing about her........hmmmmmmmm if you are going to marry her brother that could be considered Incestuous. So I would keep that to yourself. =)
2006-07-14 00:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that you are a freak or weird, To me you are just a fun person, and you find some one who you can share your happiness with, The way to be happy is to make others happy Helping others is the secret of all success in business, in the art and in the home.
2006-07-14 01:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep fantasizing about her you may not be proposed to. I think it's a little physco, that you think of her like a sister, because if she has any loyalty towards her brother, if you two break up, she most likely will kick your *** tot he curb too. I've done this before and usually it's just you trying to get in good with his family, so he wont leave you. Why dont you just be with her instead of him?
2006-06-30 06:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you need to watch for. Our pre-marriage counselor told us that the intimate things that my wife and I share in the bedroom should stay just between us because it is such a close intimate part of the relationship. You need to respect these boundaries and even enforce them with your sister-in-law should she begin talking about it. It is even more important for you since this is your own brother that is involved. A males egeo can be very fragile. Respect his right to privacy betwen him and his new wife in this area.
2006-07-12 04:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by jp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋