Hmm, lets see I went to a highschool dance about in the winter time and I met this girl (she can dance!) I gave her my phone# and shes been calling me ever since then, and I got to know her personality shes great. The thing is its summer now and I've only seen her about 5 times, I know where she lives and I even met her parents. For some reason why I cant ask her out , and dont want to ask her out on a phone, but then again we hardly meet. I think about her alot and she say she like me alot to.IDK what to do, I know meeting her parents is weird and I think things are moving quick, and thats uncomfotable. How do ask her out ,do i take her out, send her flowers, drive, to her house(parents house) , Im confused.
2006-06-30 06:13:30 · 19 answers · asked by Ryan J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude!... Ask her out... whether it is in person, on the phone, whatever... Just ask her... It is obvious that you both like each other, so spend some time together...
2006-06-30 06:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by paL 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with asking a girl out on the phone.... If you feel like you need a grand gesture you can always send flowers or write a nice letter. You could wait til you see her but ... if you don't see each other much right now, there is a possibility that you may not see each other much when and if you date (just something to consider). Does she live far or something? If she really likes you and you really like her it doesn't really matter HOW you ask, it just matters that you ASK.
2006-06-30 13:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by littlearthquake3355 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man this what you should do. since you ve met the parents i would say that it's ok for you to go and ask her out face to face. to tell you the truth you sound like a perfect gentlemen and this is a good thing. first send her some flowers with a lovely notes and ask her to call you when she receives them , then you will seize the moment of asking her out. either way i think she would be thrilled
2006-06-30 14:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should call her more often, then make plans for like a couple weekends in a row (just as a friend thing) but don't let her know that you just wanna be friends...keep her guessing..then the second wknd..ask her to go out with you officially! Good Luck <33
2006-06-30 13:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too shy to ask her out in person, send her some flowers with a card attached asking her out. Tell her to call you with the answer. Good Luck!
2006-06-30 13:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call her and tell her you want to talk in person. and for the date send her flowers that day, and then pick her up at her house. a girl likes to feel like a guy took time to think of her.
2006-06-30 13:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP TAKE A BREATH DUDE AND GET A GRIP!
she like you you like her so what is the big thing
its not like she gonna rejected you ....and meeting the parent
**** i wont let my kid date a boy i haven't got a chance to meet
cause i gota know shes gonna be OK......and that's the bottom line
you will be OK ride the wind and see where you go and lighten up Little
2006-06-30 13:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and ask her out for any kind of activity...maybe something you have in common...be brave!! It might be too much to show up on the front porch unless that is normal...some people don't like pop ins...but maybe you could call her and say can I come over, then bring flowers and ask her out!
2006-06-30 13:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by givit2ustr8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all ask her out in person and the reason you dont see each other is cause ur not to gether adn you dont want ppl askin if you are like if your with her 24/7 ppl are gonna ask if you are going out so if you do ask her and you should you will probaly see a lot more of each other . if you need anything else email me at totalykissablelove@yahoo.com
2006-06-30 13:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by kissy kiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it all Buy floors take her out 2 a movies n Dinner ask her 2 date u...she must like u 4 her to call u when u gave her ur #
Good Luck n meetin her parents was the hardest part
they like u ur set....
2006-06-30 13:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by tats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋