i met this guy troy by an ex like 1 year ago. in the past few months weve been talking a lot, text messages and e-mail and on the phone. he comes over to my house too. and we go do things together. well he came over to my house on wednesday and my bestfriend was talking to him while i was in the shower. she told him that i loved him ... and he didnt know what to say back, he told her that he would just ask me out but he "didnt want a girlfriend" ... but after that he said he did like me though. when i got out of the shower and got dressed we were watching a movie and he kept staring at me, when i noticed i looked at him and he would look away and act like he never was looking at me in the firstplace ... i cant tell if he likes me or not ... HELP? ... dose he like or love me ... or dose have any feelings for me?
2006-06-30 05:35:58 · 22 answers · asked by BryNaNa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he isn't that interested because he hasn't asked you. He can like you, but if he chooses to not act on it, then it isn't much of a like now is it. He certainly does not love you and you don't love him either.
2006-06-30 05:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say he might have thought of you as fun but now realizes you are not that way. Or he was embarrassed by having someone other than you tell you are in love with him. It is never good to use an agent to tell someone you are in love with them. It must be you that states it for it to be real. Otherwise anyone can say anything to anyone but without your consent or you saying it the statement is in its self worthless. You are the master of your destiny never have someone else speak for you in an important matter for it is Foley. Not everyone has your best interest at heart and your friend could have said anything you must contact this person and convey your message in person and also See what was really said.
2006-06-30 05:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say sa I am not him. You really have to look at it from different angles. Maybe he does. Maybe he doesn't.
Really think about it. He's going to ask you out, but he doesn't want a girlfriend. This could mean a few things. It shouldn't be too hard to figure out, and that's why you have to be careful. You don't want to get hurt, do you? No, and that may be his only intention. Bottom line: take it slow. Play hard to get. If he does like you, he'll cave. If not, he'll leave, and get someone else in his crosshairs. Ya dig?
2006-06-30 05:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time... maybe he have feelings for you, but dint want a relationship at this time... When a boy and a girl are friends, there's is always a chance that unconsciously they have feelings for each other... In this case, when some of the two person learns/understand the feelings the other have, then he's confused and starts wondering "do i love her back?"....
Don't try to push him for anything - not even about talking for it-. Think: Till the time he learned you see him as sth more he thought you as his friend...
If he likes/loves you then he'll do sth and you'll understand....
hope you understood what i'm trying to say!!!
2006-06-30 05:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by smaragda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he like u in some kind of way or he would not be email, text or even taking the time out to call but yell was doing okay u should have just left it the way it was and it would have played itself out and now he might feel like he is being pressure into doing something that he is not ready for and that might make u lose a friend
2006-06-30 05:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by poohbearbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he likes what you can do for him. If a guy really cares for you, he wouldnt just use you for s*x. He would want to be in an actual relationship with you. If you are willing to have no strings attached. He sounds like a great person for that, and to try and not be completely negative he may come around and eventually commit. Depends on what your looking for in a man.
2006-06-30 05:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Candycane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does like you .. as far as love goes... it takes more than that to LOVE someone. If you can't talk to him about how you feel what makes you think you can have a relationship with him? Your FRIEND shouldn't have even said anything about your feelings YOU should have.
2006-06-30 05:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably was ackward for him to hear those words from his friend and is trying to evaluate his next step. Don't worry about realtionship titles and just enjoy his company. Let whatever happens naturally. Now, I can't tell you if he likes/loves you, but give it time and you will find out.
2006-06-30 06:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by Madam SupaStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best friend doesn't sound very nice. she should have not said anything! infatuation is one thing and love is not in this picture. he may have been looking at you trying to figure out why if you just started talking would love be involved??
2006-06-30 05:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by SHE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he likes you but i don't think he loves you. of course I'm not there to read both of you when you are interacting with each other. so try getting closer and getting to know him better when he feels it he'll say it. most men don't say "i love you" unless they mean it. and remember some say it to get what they want.
2006-06-30 05:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by tigger_4_life2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋