I now some times the illusion can beat some one but this girl calls me 3-4 times a weak, she accept the fact the she feel great being with me, is possible change her feelings?? girl please tell me...
2006-06-30 05:01:47 · 23 answers · asked by pirixito 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesn't sound good buddy... it appears she's keeping you at arm's length for a reason... it's up to you really do you really want this girl as a "friend" or as a girlfriend? If you want a "friend" well you've got one... if you want her as a girlfriend... spell it out bluntly... say something like... you know I really enjoying talking with you (or spending time together)... and have found myself quite attracted to you... but not as just a friend... if you're saying we'll never get together romantically.. then I must say goodbye. I don't think I can maintain only a "friendship" with you. It would be too hard for me knowing that I have stronger feelings for you than you do for me.
2006-06-30 05:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. U can show her a really good time and eventually she realize how good u 2 wud be together as acouple instead of just friends. It all depends on the chemistry. If there's good chemistry, your chances are greater in getting her to change her mind.
2006-06-30 05:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Dngrsly_Sexii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If I tell a guy I only have feelings for him as a friend, I mean it. It doesn't matter how many times she calls you or hangs out with you or even if she sleeps with you. If I tell you I will never have romantic feelings towards you, I never will.
2006-06-30 05:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep pursuing her ... it will take time but she'll open up to you in a little while .. get to know her better .. become closer friends and don't let up .. I've had a few guy friends do this and we ended up dating .. never anything too serious just good old friends having fun ... lots & lots of fun .. *wink*wink* ... !
She'll come around .. Patience .. Danielson .. Patience .. !!!
2006-06-30 05:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
â¥All of my guy friends that ever started liking me more then a friend I never dated... I've had guy friends that I called everyday just to talk and I just loved hanging out with them on a regular basis....but he was just a friend to me and i couldn't see him any other way.... maybe her feelings for you will change but in my opinion from my past you guys will just stay friends. Good luck â¥
2006-06-30 05:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by ?Blonde_Queen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, its possible. You may have to give it a little time.
But always value her friendship and don't be too nice, for some reason girls don't like the nice ones.
2006-06-30 05:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by NyceGyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can change her mind.. But please be mindful that it will be only temporary.... If you think it's worth it then go for it. Let me included the fact that you are putting yourself in a position to be used, abused, hurt mentally. Be mindful of your heart and never settle for what you got - you can have exactly what you want.
2006-06-30 05:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITs possible to change that by showing her exactly how you feel about her and doing things to show that you care about her! being there for her when no one else is is a good start. and listening to her when she needs to talk is another! pretty soon she'll see that maybe your a keeper!
2006-06-30 05:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by PRE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that can change cause then sooner or later she might be able to see you in a new light as long as you keep your masculinity and dont' be a puzzy about things. like be a big shoulder for her to cry on, but be a BIG SHOULDER NOT NO ********* SHOULDER. In other words becareful with how much emotion you convey it can ruin things. GIRLS LOVE MANLY MEN!!
2006-06-30 05:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is possible. Play save.
2006-06-30 05:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by omota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋