Well, when you start a new relationship with someone, should you wait a while before engaging in sexual activity or should yall start right off the back? I mean i kno it comes with a relationship but how soon should it start?
2006-06-30 04:45:27 · 20 answers · asked by J-Bo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hold off as long as possible. She just wants you for your man juice.
2006-06-30 04:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by LordzAbove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
varies from person to person however look at it this way. if you start having sex right off the bat what do you have to look forward to? i personally think its best to at the very least to wait until you are certain that the two of you are going to see each other exclusively. that way one person doesn't feel used if it doesn't work out after a few weeks. i know in this day and age sex isn't looked at as something as serious as it is but it should be. with sex comes a lot of responsibility. for your own health, for that of your partner, not to mention that despite protection you could wind up pregnant and linked together with someone you don't know well. when you wait it makes it just that much better. i would advice you to wait as long as you possibly can. its worth it.
2006-06-30 04:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this may sound sort of mean but if you are just worried about the sex - get with a girl that also just wants sex or go find a prostitute. if you want sex right away please make sure thats what the girl wants too. because if you play it out like you love her and stuff it will really hurt her later...
if you really do love her you would take time to get to know her and make sure you are right for each other. if you just want the sex though i would suggest finding a girl that also just wants that because it will be less work for you to get it anyway. if you want a REAL relationship that revolves around LOVE then you definitatley should wait.... but if your just havin a fling or what not you should at least make sure the girl knows that :p
2006-06-30 04:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with Summer S, its better to get to know each other before getting evolved sexually, its hot the best way to start of a relationship especially if u looking for a long-term relationship that will last
2006-06-30 04:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by msfortier01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you rush in too quickly, the relationship might just be about sex - which if you're alright with, enjoy. But it may miss going to a deeper level if you jump in too quickly. It all depends on the man and woman involved.
2006-06-30 04:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, once you have sex it creates a permanent change in the relationship, breakups are not supposed to happen after that, so the thing to do is hold out until you are ready to have a permanent relationship, create that permanent relationship, and then have sex after that. In Biblical terms: leave father and mother, be untied to your spouse, and become one flesh.(*) In that order.
May God bless you and keep you
2006-06-30 04:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are looking for a relationship truly, you should wait as long as it takes. You should really get to know the person and their family before you have sex with them.
2006-06-30 04:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINITELY HOLD OUT!!! IT IN THE END IT WILL CAUSE NOTHING BUT PROBLEMS FOR YOU!!! Such as you'll stop trying to get to know the person for who they really are and you just get caught up in sex that they're giving you. Dont cheat yourself, do it when the time is right for the both of you and not just to satisfy yourself.
2006-06-30 09:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by healinhands01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to jump.. i would wait until im sure that my partner or whatever respects me. who wants to be with someone who just wants sexual activity, not me. waiting isnt bad, if that person really likes you and cares about you then they wont be in rush either
2006-06-30 04:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a little bit get to know each other a little more because if you start wit sex shes going to think you are a sex maniac
2006-06-30 04:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Janey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better to wait, but my boyfriend and I didn't. Part of me is so mad at that because I thinki it's better if you wait. However, my boyfriend and I have been together 4 months and we are still so in love with each other.
2006-06-30 04:48:02 · answer #11 · answered by Laurissa DLP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋