My dad comitted suiside and my uncle raped me. I just got out of the hospital. What should i do??

Answer 1

stay strong ,,,easier said than done....pray.....i will pray for you ,,you have a lot of healing to do...talk to someone....do you have family members that you can talk too? call the hospital back and see if they can guide you in finding a counselor...

Answer 2

Frist thing remember that what your Dad did has nothing to with you. suicide is a very selfish thing to do . The person that does it does not think about what it will do to people left behind. If your Dad was having mental problems thats another story . Try to forgive him . Now for your uncle... tell the police , tell anyone you can. If he has done this sick thing to there may others out there . Remember that rape is not about sex , its about power. Do not let this animal have your power. You don't tell he has the power. And there is always the other side on the coin .. A bottle of knock drops a roll of duct tape , a chair and a claw hammer works great to . Just kidding about that one... well maybe

Answer 3

If this was just recent then you need to seek help medical for the rape and then report it to you local police for starters.
If your old enough, perhaps social services in your area can help you find a place to stay until your legal. They have group homes not so much foster home care . If you don't have any other family members avail. Seek counseling to get over the rape don't let this make you a victim for long you have your life whole life ahead of you. You can IM here on yahoo if you feel the need.

Answer 4

You need to get some serious help from a professional-either a psychiatrist, psychologist, or a liscensed counselor. Use the whole horrible ordeal to your advantage. Right now, you have been through more than most people go through in their whole life. It's incredibly horrible, BUT, because you survived it & were forced to deal with something this serious, you are now prepared to face just about anything. You have SURVIVED & now you have the chance to rise above something most couldn't imagine.
Good Luck to You!!!

PS-Maybe you were meant to be a victim's advocate or a counselor yourself. You may be very rich someday.
That should aat least make you smile!!!

Answer 5

if you wanna recover fast, rather than going to a doctor or police or a lawyer or a psychologist i would suggest you to read books by osho, it gives you a lot of inner courage, once you get over with the shock, then go for the leagel actions, else it would put u to more tension and everything will go wrong. it is osho only who has made me to recover from a very major shock, it works, some may find it a joke, but u never know until u read it. else u may contact me on [e-mail]. take care.... b brave, u have to teach lessons to others....

Answer 6

I agree with everyone who has said talk to a friend or family member about it, if you have someone you might be able to talk to. Make sure you think positively about your future. People who have trouble when they are young can turn out to be the strongest people in the world if they deal with their problems and think positively about the future.

A counselor is a very good idea. I think everyone in the world should have a counselor to talk to really.

If you don't know where to look, you can look here:
http://www.rainn.org/counseling-centers/index.html

These people focus on sexual abuse counseling, which is kind of appropriate, but they will probably also know where you can go to talk about other things in your life :)

Answer 7

Find a safe place to live. Find a counselor to talk with. Find people to love and to help... because that is the fastest way to healing your own hurts.

Know that even though life has a lot of pain, it also has the promise of joy and love. You will have that, too, if you give yourself time and permission, I promise. Just take it one day - sometimes one moment - at a time...

Answer 8

your father is resting and didn't make a wise choice. Don't you think about doing the same thing!!! As for old unc......testify against his sorry excuse for life and put him away!!!! Don't feel ashamed, you are a special person and remember " this too shall pass" life gets better. Stay strong and its OK to cry and ask for help.

Answer 9

speak with a professional psy. or a rape counsellor, you will have a lot of emotional stuff to deal with, take it one day at a time and pray alot, he does listen to us, just sometimes the answers he gives us we don't like. sorry this has happened to you. i was almost raped once and it did mess me up for a while.

Answer 10

Sorry to hear about that! Make an appointment to start talking with a counselor right away.