I have been seeing a guy for about a month and a half. When we are together things are great. However he tends to cancel dates or make them at the last minute. He says this is because he knew I was seeing someone else, which I was because I saw his profile was back up. We have confessed to each other everything,recently . I stopped seeing the other guy, told him I just want to be with him. He says he does love me and wants a fresh start. However we have no plans for the weekend yet, despite the fact I asked. He said he will call, but if he doesn't see me this weekend, should I give up, or should I give him and us some time?
2006-06-30 04:43:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was married for twelve years prior, my husband left me for someone else. This new guy and I met on line dating. We both took our profiles down, thenI found out his was back up. When I questioned him he said he isn't seeing someone else, just confused about us.
2006-06-30 05:06:24 · update #1
Ultimately this depends on how much you care for this guy. You've gotta ask whether he's worth the wait. There's no default time on these things. It has to be what's good for you.
2006-06-30 04:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a lil more time the only thing about this is u start it off with him f*** up because however u start something it going to end that way. he knew u had a boyfriend and u was still seeing him so know he is thinking if u get with u on a boyfriend girlfriend kind of thing will u do the same to him so u have to make sure he know u will not do that to him that way he is still acking that way toward u
2006-06-30 11:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by poohbearbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him up. If he was really the right one for you, you wouldn't have to worry about any of this because he'd be calling all the time, you would have standing plans on the weekends, and you would already know how he really felt about you.
2006-06-30 11:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to weigh if you can live without him...his mixed signals may just be a response to the mix signals you are also sending him...
2 things, he tends to cancel your date because he is too busy or maybe he still doesnt know how to make the move and is making sure to make it when he is ready and when you are totally free...
2006-06-30 11:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by clark_kwent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before get into relationship , or more deep love fist you must study the guy , that's mean inside and outside it will take time but if you can do that you will know him better then you don"t have to worry about signals, and try understand your side and his side and be open chat with him, example ask him are you playing with me or do you have some one or do you like me
2006-06-30 11:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto Robin!
2006-06-30 11:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts.
I would think that you may be his 2nd or 3rd choice, he's keeping you around in case his #1 falls through.
Make plans with your girls or family & try to keep busy this weekend.
You're the catch, let him chase you, don't be so availible.
2006-06-30 11:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick around when he and you are on the same page. Give it time and talk openly to him again. If he says he will call and does, he's into you. If he says he will call and never does, move on...
2006-06-30 11:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by Scarlett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been together to long already if you all don't learn to do as you say you will people get hurt as you are if you can't handle the let down find something else
2006-06-30 11:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are sending the signals.
2006-06-30 11:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by 3DDD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋