I've been asked out; we've talked on the phone several times & I've seen his picture. He seems really nice & is very nice looking; problem for me - he's been with a lot of people, done just about everything possible to do sexually, is really into one nighters with no strings, all that. I'm not - & the more we talk, the more emphasis he's placing on sex. Should we meet for drinks, or should I be upfront with him & just tell him that I really don't see any future in going out with him cos I'd be afraid to touch him. Also, I think he's really been lax about "protection" - which scares the crap outta me. I'm just getting over being dumped from a long term relationship & don't want to be just a notch on his headboard.
Any advice?
2006-06-30 04:26:10 · 11 answers · asked by pumpkin 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from the way you make him sound, you won't even make it to his place or bed...you'll probably end up as a dent on the hood of his car!
seriously though, i wouldn't waste my time. it sounds alot like a woman i was going to see, we didn't even make it to the booth for drinks when she was all over me...it ended there. good luck!
2006-06-30 04:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by City slicker 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like he's already bracing you for the eventual, "Sorry babe, I told you I was all about the sex. I'm not READY for a relationship" But if you feel like he's sincere and wants to date you (if thats what you want) then go out for drinks and see how he acts. If he's all over you, then tell him that's it and leave. But if you think that sex is seriously all he's after, I wouldn't even bother going out with him...
2006-06-30 11:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by dreamofme0202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you think you are strong enough emotionally to handle the consequences of a possible broken heart in the future, you might want to avoid him... sounds like he is only interested in sex... and it sounds like you want a lot more than just having casual sex...
2006-06-30 11:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything and you can't let those decide your life. Stick to what you believe, be honest with him, and get it over with, so he doesn't keep bugging him. The sooner you tell him no, the better off you'll be, but be careful, he may not be used to being told no...
2006-06-30 11:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by tommywheelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid this guy. He sounds like a dirty person who cannot commit. Don't hurt yourself by getting involved with this guy. If anything, just remain friends for now until he grows up.
2006-06-30 11:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by starr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terminate your relationship with him. He sounds like an irresponsible user that cares only about himself and his own gratification with no regard for you or anybody else.
2006-06-30 11:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by expatmt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother with it...just tell him that you dont see any...and emphasize ANY type of future with him...too much hastle is sounds..
2006-06-30 11:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by raven wants it... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CAREFULL, he is overcompensating and is probably not that great in bed anyway.
2006-06-30 11:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by LordzAbove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lead him on tell him what you want
don do something you might regret
2006-06-30 11:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by MARK C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else.
2006-06-30 11:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋