to let them know you think they are someone that you would love to spend time with. I've been on the dating scene for a little while now and I don't have any issues with finding nice ladies, It's just they sometimes get the wrong impression. If I come off a little slow, they think I'm not interested, if I am a little more open such as telling her that I think she is sweet and I would like to see more of her, some women normally take that as I want to get in their pants. I'm not into the player scene, I'm looking for something stable along the lines of friends that hopefully will come to be in love one day. So what do I say that conveys that intent?
2006-06-30 04:03:53 · 17 answers · asked by Shyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just tell them you looking for a serios relationship and ask if they are readdy to comit
2006-06-30 04:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet the right girl, you'll just click. You'll both enjoy spending time together, you'll laugh like friends but be sure to do the little things that will let her know that you are interested in her as more than a friend. Touch her while talking and/or while doing things. Not in a creepy way, but, in a natural way. Make sure you give her a kiss at the end of a date. Not a peck on the cheek and not a sloppy, tongue down her throat. A nice kiss on the lips. Women expect a guy to kiss them, or at least try if they are interested. If you don't the girl thinks you don't like her or are not attracted to her. It's important to let a girl know you want the friendship but are interested in more with time. You don't necessarily need to say it. While you're out together, before the date is over, plan the next one. This way she knows you want to see her again. It doesn't have to be the specifics, but the idea. While in conversation, ask her about her feelings about dateing and casually bring up yours. You won't have to try hard or think to much when you meet the right girl.
2006-06-30 11:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting your mouth run away with you. The more you blather on and on, trying to tell a lady about your feelings and motivations, there more there is for a lady to misinterpret. Let your actions speak for themselves. If you keep asking her out, she will know that your interest continues and you want to see more of her.
Around date #4 or #5 is time enough to declare your intentions. BE BRIEF. Like, over dinner at restaurant just say something casual like "You know, I worry about saying or doing the wrong thing and scaring you away. But I'm very happy tonight, and I hope you're happy too. I'd really to keep getting together like this."
This tells her that you are content with things as they are, and not pushing to 'get in her pants'. Of course, your actions must send the same message. DO NOT attempt to further physical intimacy, unless you get VERY definite signals from the lady that she wants exactly this sort of attention from you.
2006-06-30 11:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you seem like the player type in the first place? Something you've done in the past has given that impression of you... maybe you've cheated before, or you hang out with a group of guy who are less then sensible dates. Just be up front about your intentions at all times, and if a girl doesn't trust you, then keep trying to show her that you aren't there to get laid. Eventually you'll come to a girl who will trust you and enjoy hearing how much you like her. You just have to be patient.
2006-06-30 11:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being sincere like you are being is great. If the girl is thinking that you want to only get in her pants then she is judging you way too quick anyways. Just continue to ask her out and see where it goes. The only way to convey your intent is to continue to see her and being honest with your feelings if she asks. Just don't move things too fast by talking about a long term committment after a couple dates. That could scare her away. Good luck!
2006-06-30 11:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ever u want to see more of her not to tell her just kiss her and TT stuff coz that's the way gurlz are u can not change it and besides never ask for more in 2 3 times let her ask u for it if she ask u for more so u can go ahead easily coz she feels secure n never consider u as a player
2006-06-30 11:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them out to some where that sex is the last thing on their mind. Like a zoo or movie or even a museum
2006-06-30 11:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every Woman is different...but all of them like to be pampered, they all love flowers. Just make them feel like they are tiny babies... Maan they just love it. Hmmmm... you just might get into her pants, look for the ones who wear loose pants.. it would be helpful.
2006-06-30 11:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Shaan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be really friendly and take your time in getting to know them girls...
If unsure, just shut up and smile, or tell her a joke that's really funny.
2006-06-30 11:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know, women take what men say in so many different ways. just try to talk to them like if they were a good friend of yours.
2006-06-30 11:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋