They seem so unpassionate, boring, and weird. Is it just me? I am a Christian woman, but I am attracted to non-Christians. I am always trying to win men to Christ so that I can date them. Do you find them boring or hot?
2006-06-30 04:03:52 · 37 answers · asked by davidswiphey 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You've just met the wrong Christian men. Give it time, dear. There are plenty that are plenty fun.
2006-06-30 04:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the Chrsitan men you are hanging around are boring, yo uare hanging with the wrong group of men.
A Chrsitian life should be one of the most exciting lives lived. We have a hope and a future that is incredible. We should be able to have an authenticity and passion with other believers that goes way beyond the artifical that this world tries to imitate and never quite gets right.
Hmm.... I say look for some more and don't base your opinion just on a few sleepy heads. This life should be an adventure not a bore.
2006-06-30 04:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by Todd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My pops is Christian and all the women at church were always trying to get with him. But he's active we Coached Girls softball together and won a city championship, we did acting in all kind of Plays, He does the Martin Luther King Speech every year, At every football game or track meet i had he was the loudest one there, and music we listen to alot of Up beat christian music, Kirk Franklin, Fred hammond Donnie Mckurlin. My pops taught me that you can be a christian and still be sexy. I understand what you mean it's like these guys give thier life to christ and their personality gets put in the drawer never to return. I'm glad I wasn't raised that way, we are out there just waiting to be found by you.
2006-06-30 04:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm married to a Christian man, and he is not boring, but I do know where you are coming from. The difference with my guy is that he explored many different avenues before becoming Christian. He used to go to a Buddhist temple and things like that. We are both very open minded and like to learn about other religions, and we don't judge those who aren't Christian. There are quite a few guys at our church however, that are very boring and uptight. I do know exactly where you are coming from cause I was there a few years ago before I met my husband.
2006-06-30 04:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lilah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is WRONG to change them!! I assume that is what u meant, win men to christ doesn't make ANY sense. Ur dumb. How old r u? And so so wrong. How are they weird? This is ur OPINION only. They are passionate. R u a hoe or something? They are NOT boring. I'd kill for a decent guy!!!! I'm not that religous but still want a good guy. FIND a bad boy then.
2006-06-30 04:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, normally, and I am a Christian.
I just went to a wedding though and my nephew was getting married. He is a poster boy for what you are talking about. However, when he let loose, he was the one person that everyone loved the most. Stick with the Christians. You are going to have a hard time converting a husband. And, beware of the fakes. My favorite prayer targeted to those people is "Lord, save us from them Christians."
2006-06-30 04:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christian men are such a variety in temperaments. If you've met boring ones so far, meet more, you'll find the exciting ones.
It is good to convert non Christian men but do not do it in order to date them. Some who are attracted to you may "convert" to win your trust and latter prove that they never converted in the first place. After converting someone, pray that God directs how close you should relate and follow your "inner voice".
2006-06-30 04:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by St Lusakan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the christian men are not boring at all. Being a christian man, I would we have different priority than chasing girls. We try to keep our body in a different way than the world do.
If you have the same aspiration, you will discover another vision of the christian men.
2006-06-30 04:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by Denzel X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly dont think that christian men are boring i am not married as yet and i am dating a christian man and he is fun loving passinate playful and and i enjoy every second being around him you may have a find a few who are boring but you have some who you enjoy being around them every minute
2006-06-30 04:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just finding the wrong ones, there are a lot of Christian guys that are not boring and unpassionate. just look harder.
2006-06-30 04:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Kay-Jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the find the right one. If you are a Christian, you probably would not last long term with someone with another set of "core" beliefs." If I were you (which I have been before I got married)...I would stay on the Christian side of the fence...just to stick with those core values. My husband is awesome...maybe he is one in a million...best of luck to you. I totally understand your comment.
2006-06-30 04:07:33 · answer #11 · answered by DoveDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋