was in love with someone for almost 3 yrs.now due to family pressure we parted, however we don't wish to. But we are also specific not to lose any of our family members due to this relationship. Please suggest
2006-06-30 04:03:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hi, If u guys are really made for each other then iam sure u will get married. I understand ur concern for families too but if there 's genuity in ur love then i guess they will understand too!! Put a word to ur families , try to convince... that's the only best way! goodluck guys!!
2006-06-30 05:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by smashbabe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did not state what is causing the pressure though so my answer is only based on assumption. When you are in a relationship it is only YOU and that special person NOT you, that special person and family member(s). If you really really love each other you will not let anything or anyone stop you from doing so. The both of you must not let people manipulate you.
2006-06-30 06:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by tykky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family comes first. They have been with you through thick and thin and will be with you for the rest of your life. It would be a good idea to talk to them and see if a dialogue is possible. We have all heard about leading our own lives and we being in control. Nothing beats family. Try and talk to them and see if then they can listen to you else go with the family's decision. You would be doing yourself a favor which you will realise in the long run... All the best!
2006-06-30 04:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happens is just a sort of trials between the two of you...but always remember that the family also matters us most. IF you think that it is very important for both of you to be parted, do it for your family...always remember that everything's happen for a reason...maybe God uses your family because the two of you are not meant to be...just remember that if both of you are meant for each other, at the end you will really be together...maybe this isn't the good timing for the both of you...so better wait for God's perfect timing...GOD BLESS
2006-06-30 05:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by gracie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do what you want to do.... your family will have to get over it... if you love this person then you should be with them..if you two dont get back together then you will regret it for the rest of your life...your family should be behind you 110%....you need to talk to them (family) and tell them you and so in so are going to get back together and that you wished that they would just understand that you love this person and stand behind you.... love is a rare thing dont let go of it you may never find it again
2006-06-30 04:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes family and outsiders can see things that we are blinded by... talk to your family and see what their reasoning is. You don't go into much detail... maybe you are 16 and he is 35... maybe you are a college student and he is in prison... Communication with your family is key - don't lose that!
2006-06-30 04:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by ncstacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really impressed that there r still people who care for their perants satisfaction to them , i respect u for that .
just talk about it to them show them how seriously u love ur partener , be confident when trying to convince them ...u must have a back bone for that , refuse to marry someone else , ofcourse they cant force u to that , and by time when they know that u wont marry someone else and live lonely they will make up their minds.....by the way that worked with my brother anyway good luck !
2006-06-30 05:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by Egyptian Daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh girl I've been there. I'm sorry for u. this is the hardest thing to deal with. if stay with this person your family will disown u for only a while. eventually they (your family) will come to terms with your decision. i hope everything works our for u.
2006-06-30 04:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by ROSIE B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes you have to lose --- sorry but my family isn't going to control my life --- I married a white man (I'm black) ---- if they choose not to accept him that's their choice --- it certainly won't stop me from being with a man who is wonderful and loving as he is!!!
Besides if your family really loves you - they wouldn't stop loving you ----just because they don't agree with your choices.
2006-06-30 04:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are adults, you have to make up your own minds and live your own lives. You cannot let family dictate how you should live and who you should love. Take responsibility for yourself or you will live to regret it.
2006-06-30 04:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋