My boyfriend, he is a Muslim man but never told me about it. me none religious so I asked many times about it but just said "no". why he hide it from me? he told me lies so many times,without scruple. and he seems to found a Muslim woman to get married.....so frustrating.... what should I do ?
2006-06-30 04:01:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2006-06-30 04:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
With the way the world is today, being Muslim, at least in the USA, is scary. To many people stereotype Muslim as terrorist. It just is not true. People need to wake up and be real. There are good and bad everywhere.
If he is getting married, I assume he is no longer your boyfriend. Move on, maybe he was with this other women for a long time and didn't know how to tell you. That might be why you do not know much about him. There may be even more you don't know. Find someone else.
2006-06-30 04:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gardener for God(dmd) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hiding it because he wants to play & use non muslim women because muslim girls do not play till they are married. Well not with Muslim boys anyway, just with non muslims. They also hide their religion so that they can have fun until they find a nice muslim husband, who they can worship and be a slave to.
DUMP HIM or he may try to convert you and you could end up covering up for a terrorist. If he hides his religion from you, you must ask what else is he hiding?
Ask him what he thinks of America and Britain, and does he think suicide bombers become martyrs.
DUMP THE CHUMP. Lying is a sin in the eyes of Allah. He is not even true to his "god"
2006-06-30 04:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by super_star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Move on. If he's found someone else, you do the same. As to why he didnt tell you . . . , there are several possibilities. Dont dwell on it. Its a mute point that will change nothing even if you knew. You have plenty life ahead of you, find someone new who will respect you enough to be straight with you from the beginning.
To: Mr. Mister, F%$$# off, you insensitive b@#$%^!
2006-06-30 04:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by tigerzntalons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess sister,the main reason for not telling you about his religion is his concern "will you be accepting of it" otherwise it may just be that he just wanted to pass time with you untill he finds a muslim girl to marry, because in the religion it is more acceptable to marry a muslim girl.
2006-06-30 04:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by ?'s Related To Islam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O dear I had a muslim husband and he lied to me they read the quran ?? Allah is oft or most forgiving although it does have laws it gives then no reason to follow them but the women are expected to. I asked my husband about islam and he could not explain all he said is you wont to become muslim. I just wonted to understand his faith. when I read the quran I soon realised all muslims nedd help
2006-06-30 09:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sam's 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know himself and if he is aiming to marry a Muslim woman, is only to identify himself. There is one way for your situation; show him that you are studying Islam and he will trust himself more and give you trust. Study the concept of Mut'a which is the relationship of a Muslim man w/ his non-Muslim gf. www.al-islam.org.
2006-06-30 04:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ismael B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he thinks that most people will criticize him like saying you are a terr est and people will dog him i have experience negative comments by Christan's for being a Muslim
2006-06-30 04:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ihatebush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that,muslim people are not supposed to lie at all.
He is a pretend muslim, like the 90% of them.
Dont get me started ..
2006-06-30 04:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Julie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA, LETS BACK UP A SECOND, HE'S YOUR BOYFRIEND AND HE'S FOUND HIMSELF ANOTHER WOMAN TO MARRY, AND YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD DO. NEVER MIND THE MUSLIM PART.
SORRY i JUST HAVEN'T GOT A CLUE WHAT TO DO. WOULD YOU CONSIDER ASKING HIS NEW WIFE. YOU NEVER KNOW SHE MAY BE A BIT SMARTER THAN BOTH OF US
2006-06-30 04:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree with Mark_H..maybe ur boyfriend scared to tell u the truth as Muslim now is taken as terrorist and he might scared tht u dumb him...anyway maybe u could try to talk to him..dont push him, but try to slow talk with him..hopefully it work..good luck
2006-06-30 20:48:05 · answer #11 · answered by Lydia_an 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋