if you were in college, and would;ve met a guy/girl and fallen in love with them, then years later found out you were brothers how would you feel? would you break up? I mean you didn't know you were related so how is that a sin, you did not grow up together, wut would be your reaction towards this?
2006-06-30 03:53:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No, I wouldn't break up. If we fell in love then the gods must okay with it. Who knows this might be your one true love, why give it up for any reason.
2006-06-30 08:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ravenwolf_mn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that would be a horrible thing to find out, because if you were in love and decided to keep going the thoughts would most likely overwhelm you hurting your mental health and possibly physical health. If you broke up the emotional state you would be in would also be hard to get through. Sins have nothing to do with it people, don't press your religion on other people. If you are saying that incest and homosexuality is a sin, then you are most likely sinners if you are black, eat seafood that once had a shell on it, so don't bring that religious bullshit that you pick and choose what to believe based on your own insecurities and hatred. At any rate man i hope you find the right way that will help you get by.
2006-06-30 04:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by blakeksu05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in that situation that happens then yes the right thing would to break ties. Whether you knew or not once you know its still the same blood. Children are born deformed from incest. I think its wrong and unfair to an unborn child. Nothing wrong with staying best of friends with that person but just move on.
2006-06-30 03:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I found out I would feel disgusted and confused. I would have to break it off even if it meant being hurt. It's hard to go from lovers then discover you're related. I think it would be hard to just kiss them knowing what you know. My reaction towards them would be distancing myself from them. If you continue the relationship after knowing then it's wrong. While you're together and have no idea then you can't be in the wrong. How would that be possible?
2006-06-30 03:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you would have to break up. and wash. seriously. scrub every inch.
now, it'd be slightly different if it was a distant relative - a 2nd or 3rd cousin, say. But, someone as close as a brother/sister - forget about sin, it's just... fundamentally wrong. And genetically, any offspring you may have together would be more likely to have birth defects.
Not to mention the stigma the child - and yourselves - would have to endure when people found out about your relation.
2006-06-30 03:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? Incest any which way regardless of circumstances and the person involved and how they feel is not ok. The law says its illegal and people have strong convictions towards it. I do however think it would be hard on whomever is involved. But they should do the right thing and walk away.
2006-06-30 04:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely break up with the person. That's why people should slow down and get to know the person they are with and get some sort of family history before engaging in relationships or sex acts. There are many genetic diseases in which could harm your child. There are also a lot of complications and societal issues do deal with.
2006-06-30 04:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by msria1979 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up for sure. To continue would not only be a sin but just flat out wrong and disgusting
2006-06-30 03:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happen to me, and my boyfriend ended up being my brother. I would be in shock, wanting to know how could this happen to me. Then I would be wanting to, do the bleach and the crying game song.
after finding out, about the history that mom or dad had with someone. I would cut ties with my boyfriend/brother. I couldn't look at him the same , as I had did before. It be hard seeing him as my brother, knowing what we done before all that happen.
But going alone with it, knowing she is your sister. Then that is sick as hell.
Kissing on her, holding hands, and even having sex. That is sick, and very very nasty. Makes you feel like you are in Deliverances.
2006-06-30 04:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by kygl28 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your dating a guy that is your brother, eeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwww. you need to be in jail incest is morally a sin and against the law
2006-06-30 03:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋