My ex cheated on me and avoided me and claimed that I said mean things about him when I didn't. I called him and I told him off saying that I never want to be his friend and that he was never my boyfriend. But I still kinda have feelings for him and I just don't know if I did the right thing. Plus, my best friend likes him. My other friend went out with him, he broke her heart. Then I did, now my best friend. What should I do?
2006-06-30 03:45:43 · 20 answers · asked by Ally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you lost in space? Are you that desprate for a man? First if anybody boy or girl cheats on another it's an EVI (ethics, values and integrity) offense. Actions like this tells you of this guys moral fiber. Example: If you meet a guy and he cheats on his GF to be with you...duh he's gonna cheat on you to be with someone else. This is HIS nature! Don't make the mistake that you love box is so special that you will be able to hold this guy in check for any leaght of time. Even if you had kids he's play.
When you see a guy you'd like to date first check out his past dating behavior. If he's a player(read cheater) then you don't date him period! He will without a doubt cheat on you. That "bad boy meets a girl and changes" **** you see in the movies is a fantasy. It doesn't exist.
Give you self some time and I promise you'll meet a guy that will rock your boat. But only hunt in places that have good guys ("if you go to midas you're gonna get a muffler"). Again if you see a guy that has in his past cheating drop him right there. YOu don't have time in your life to engage this typ of man. If you're just out playing for fun and sex fine, but use a rubber.
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Good luck,
Doc Becker
2006-06-30 04:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will never understand why women even consider going back to men that cheat on them. Especially since this one has been chasing after all your friends & breaking their hearts, too.
Move on & find someone better.
2006-06-30 04:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be realistic. The first problem is all of you went out with this nitwit. He knows that he is using and abusing you guys and you are letting him. He is enjoying every minute of it. He sees that you and your friends like drama and he is feeding it to you on a silver spoon. You should just move on. Believe me you dont have feelings for him like that. It might just be the excitement of the chase and the soap opera story you are living. Everything in life is not like Orange county (Television). I hope you didnt have sex with him. Ignore him and he will loose his hold on you.
2006-06-30 03:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime when we are angry at someone we say things we dont mean.Especially if we care for that person. BUT you did say he cheated on you why would you want this jerk anyway? AND is your friend really your friend if she likes your boyfriend. Stay away from both of them. Friends dont screw other friends boyfriends.
2006-06-30 03:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find someone else, even though you still have feelings for him. He's showing a pattern of cheating on everyone he goes out with, and you deserve better than that.
2006-06-30 03:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by Forceof1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try and talk things out between the two of you. Follow what your heart says. You'll be better off in the long run.
2006-06-30 03:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by tdogg465 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY. If he is dating through your circle of friends, he is definitely not worth the time - especially if he cheated on you. You should be questioning your friend, btw - to have a man cheat on you - then to have your friend start dating him? Not, not, not, NOT cool.
2006-06-30 03:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this person is a player, stay the farthest away from him as you can. He will only bring you more hurt. Keep looking for the one that shacks your world, He will come. Not the one that like all your friends, sounds like a A+ looser
2006-06-30 03:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by Jesusistheway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow ur heart.... If you think that u deserve to be with someone, who has dated 2 of ur friends, and has break the heart of one of them, AND then cheated on you...... then it's ur choice!
But i think you should try/wait to meet the one who will truly love you and...just my opinion!
2006-06-30 03:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by smaragda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never date your firends ex's....that is a unwritten rule that has been around for millions of years......if a man cheats once he will cheat again.....that is just how they are....so never get with a guy who has cheated on anyone...find you someone who is good....and is going somewhere with there life....not a dead beat.
2006-06-30 03:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by sashadaisie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋