Why do you people abuse your kids?

Question

First off, I work for CPS, and spanking a child, leaving no mark, is NOT abuse. I'm talking about letting them run loose in the streets gummy faced like little animals clad only in diapers, and then get mad when I have to do my job. Why are you mad? You chose to abuse and neglect them, no one out a weapon to you and made you do it. Why do you abuse them?

I have no problems taking yours either if you are in my county and you are reported dear. Snark on that.

Lol! honey my house is in order. I have the authority to get up in anyones business suspected of abusing a child.

Heather> What an ugly atrocouis spawn you have there. Good luck finding a playmate for that.

Answer 1

It's very sick what people do abusing an negleting there children.. any parent that does that deserves to have thier children taken away an givin to another relative or foster care.. there mad because they can't abuse them anymore..they feel as though they are good parents an maybe that is how they were raised an they are doing nothing wrong.. but yes indeed they are..it so sad what people do to their children..good for people like you in CPS!!

Answer 2

I kind of agree with the question, yet I do not know what goes threw some parents minds these days.
I took the job as a parent when I decided to go threw the pregnancy and it doesn't stop ever.
I don't believe that all parents are like that, at least not the ones that care.
I have people that live around me that know nothing of what their children do, because they let them run the streets doing all sorts of things and these are the same people that make it worse for parents who are actually trying to raise and take care of their children.
I also think that every parent who reads this question can possibly be offended if they feel they are being jumped on or generalized into a category that they do not fit into.
I hope that parents see this and that it makes them think twice about being a parent.
I feel badly for the kids that are left to there own devices on a daily basis with no guidance from an adult, or who are missing out on parent/child play time.
I know a gal that has five kids and well besides looking like they never take a bath and when they come into your house are constantly asking for food, never wearing shoes ( I was told that their mom won't let one of them wear a pair of shoes because she only has one pair ) is kind of saddening, when you never see the parents with the kids.
I do hope you feel better after posting this msg.

Answer 3

I just happened to read your other questions, you sound like a very bitter nasty person, how in the world did you get a Job with cps??? and the one about the military, isn't this information confidential???? what would your boss say if he knew you were on her spouting off about your job and your clients??? Ihave four wonderful children and have not once int he 12 years I have been a mother abused them, sorry you seem to think one child per couple too, i would move I love all my children and My husband and I have the ability to support and provide for them so your asinine question about us being like China is offensive, sorry you had a bad experience at a restaurant, but my kids are well behaved when we go out, I taught them manners, I suggest you get some counseling and take a break from your job, you are very very bitter and need to relax and leave the work at work. Oh and I am reporting you, your tone in these questions is offensive to good parents :)

Answer 4

Since you work in the field you know why already, or at least you should. First of all not all people who are parents are fit to be parents, what I mean is not evrything making a baby can take care of one. You know that being a "GOOD" parent requires many commitments, and sacrifices. And you know many people who leave their children like you descibed earlier where raised the same way and their grandparents, and so on and so forth. Besides, just because you have a kid doesn't mean you want a kid, or need a kid....and that whole "they should've thought of that before....." is in the past. If you can't stand the heat sweety maybe you are in the wrong kitchen. This is your job to offer help, and protect those kids regardless if the parents are below standard people in your book.

Answer 5

First of all, I never have abused my children. I was once turned in by an angry neighbor for something false (she was trying to get back at me) -- I laughed when the lady came to the door, welcomed her in and asked her if she wanted some tea. She interviewed my young son (he was little - running around house in underoos), my teenage son AND his friend while I waited outside. I came back in and she said "well, this is a false call - I know THAT for sure" --- I said "of course it is" -- but I really had a right to be angry but not at the woman investigating - she was only doing her job. People get defensive when it comes to their kids/family. Whether they are right or wrong. You are in a bad position but you had to have known that would happen, right? Some people still believe a child should be spanked or punished the way they were when they were kids (now it is "abuse"). I don't agree with that but yet, I understand that kids have gotten out of control in schools, at home (not all) and it is because they have totally lost respect for the parents. How did THAT happen?

Answer 6

i think ur point came across wrong. you was just wondering why bad parents treat their children wrong then get mad at u when u do ur job and take the child away so it will be safe. but it looks like a few good parents read it wrong and got offended. then u came back saying u would take their kids too. 1st off no one knows why kids are mistreated. they are a gift. i would never let my kids run around all nasty looking. but im a stay at home mom and made sure i was there for my kids. but some ppl have kids that shouldnt and makes the good parents look bad. you cant judge ppl by what they type on here so u saying u will take someones kid away on here was wrong. i would like to say srry to all the good parents out there that took this ladys letter as to saying we was all bad parents. and say srry to the one who asked the question to begin with. im srry u let ur work drag u down to where u think all parents are evil. hagd all and good luck with ur life

Answer 7

Jiggly...I have one family on my street like that. At 4 he has been running the streets day and night. Always dirty w/clothes that hardly fit. I will not let him in my house because I don't know his parents. I do see this kid going in everyone elses house and his parents have NO IDEA where he has been. My kids are constantly supervised. As well as the other 12 families with kids on my street. We all talk and watch out for each other. So there are good parents out there! really you are making broad statements...most of us are trying to raise our kids right. It's just a shame that your job is seeing the dirty side of parenting.

I thought about finishing my degree in social work (after my kids get in school) but you are quickly making me rethink that decision.

Answer 8

I wonder the same exact thing.
I see kids like this running around all the time and do not feel it is my place to say anything yet at the same time I feel terrible for the children.

We went to a swap meet/flea market this past weekend and a table we walked by was a mother and her son. Her son was sitting in the stroller no covered up or anything and she was totally ignoring him while he was screaming, nothing to drink, and beat red from the sun. The mom was concentrating on selling her things and worrying about her stuff. I felt so bad for this child but did not know what to do.

Answer 9

Do you even have any kids of your own?! It seems to me like you don't because otherwise you would realize why some parents let their kids run around "gummy faced" in their diapers because it gets harder and harder everyday to keep up with kids especially when you have more than one. What point are you trying to make here? That people are bad parents because their kids have food on their faces? Go waste someone elses time, because this question has no point to it...at least no point worth talking about.

Answer 10

i would really like to know why you are generalizing everyone on here you do not know any of us so f*ck you very frankly i take care of my child really you know that you sound like you are a 15 year old child who is on here just to get away with talking s*it to someone because you are probably the biggest geek in school with no friends so i would just like to tell you that i am sorry for you and there is no wonder that no one likes you
he definately has to be better looking than you ohhhhh i figured out why you are so mad at the world you are an ugly person wow im sorry maybe you should try some plastic surgery then maybe someone would like you i doubt that you have ever even been on a date HAHA