im not sure at that age they could begin to grasp the complex feelings involved with LOVING someone.
2006-06-30 03:23:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Teenagers that age seem older now than when I was that age! (In the olden days) teenage girls were not allowed to call boys or at least my mother would not allow me to call them.
I would say for that age, good age appropriate activities would be nice ways to show interest or "love" for a teenage girl. If the boy is interested, it may not be a bad thing for them to go out in groups to teen centers, movies, skating swimming or bowling or to have a pizza party. I think 15 is too young to be out alone on a one on one "date" with a boy. Call me old fashioned, but I believe in boys and girls being shy with romantic things, and taking all relationships very slowly at the tender ages of 12 to 18. Maybe some hand holding or a kiss good-night, but other than that, (and I know I am wasting my breath) I don't think there should be a lot of fumbling and groping and I do think that teenagers at this age should be well supervised by ADULTS in their lives. This is an age of raging hormones for BOTH boys and girls, kids that age are more likely to be too anxious to do adult things if left to their own devices. This is how teen pregnancies happen, and if I had a teen that was interested in beginning to date, I am afraid I would be one huge pain in the butt to have around!
I remember being a teenager, and I think it's good to have someone near to say, "NO". You can hardly trust your own judgement, when your body is saying yes yes, but you know that you should NOT!
I know my answer will probably not be the most popular, but I think it needs to be said. If you want a future, then you have to be careful with your life, and the choices that you make, and the choices that your folks may make (they are for your own good, usually). Good luck with all of this.
2006-06-30 04:01:40
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answered by ruthie_msw 4
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They cant. Boys are not capable of loving ( on a true love level) at that young of an age...remember boys are more immature than girls so while their age is 12-15 in their mentality they are only 10-13 years old.
Love will reveal itself when its true love and you definatly wont have to be asking how to show love.
2006-06-30 03:23:38
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answered by Tiffany D 3
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I am 25, my bf is 26 and we've been together ever since we were 14, that is 11 years. He won me by being a gentleman, making me laugh, holding my hand and...giving me my first kiss. And by being extremely open and honest about everything. He was the best looking guy in our class and I am so happy that he fell in love with me, me being the "teacher's pet" therefore despised. I made every girl jealous and I still do, because we are the happiest couple. And - as a hint - we made out for years before we slept together, so that we gained each other's complete trust.
2006-06-30 03:29:05
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answered by vever 1
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By being respectful to her and listening. At this age this is all you should be doing anyway. She will know you really care for her by your actions. Don't be a punk and buy her everything etc..... That is just being a pushover. Love is shown in many ways. But the best way is just to be there when she needs you.
2006-06-30 03:47:09
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answered by Anonymous
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how should thye? or do they? they do it in some of the dumbest and strangest ways. ie-NEVER tell a girl you love her in a note.
some things she would like:
1. flowers left on her desk with a love poem and a note that says to meet her secret admirer somewhere at a certain time. and youll be there with more flowers or a bear or jewlery or chocolates or some trinket that shell love.
2. say anything is one of my favorite movies. it has that all time classic scene where he stnads in front of her house with the stereo above his head playing their song.
3. ask her out to dinner and have the waiters sing a song and bring a cake and when she asks why bc it isnt her birthday or anything say you thought you should celebrate the day she discovered your love for her.
4. cornflakes by candle light at a romantic dinner in the park is always a nice date
5. a huge bear holding a clue which leads her to candy with another clue which leads her to a personal trinket with another clue which leads her to you with flowers.
anyhting romantic, cute,spontaneous, sweet, and heartfelt.
good luck:)
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2006-06-30 03:34:08
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answered by Anonymous
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That's impossible, because teenagers that young are incapable of understanding what love means. They may "love" a girl in a similar way as they love a food or a band, but they don't know what love means.
You don't "show" love, you live it. I don't "show" my wife that I love her, I live like I love her. A 13 year old doesn't know what it means to commit to a woman in that way. A kid shows he loves a girl by waiting until he's old enough to understand love before he tries to "show" it.
2006-06-30 03:25:18
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answered by kinsey_ad 2
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I almost agree, even besides the undeniable fact that i imagine sex ed could commence being taught contained in the 4th grade, and proceed until eventually 9th. If little ones had the information that they want about probability-free sex and what truly takes position even as pregnant and exertions, i imagine that 13 to fifteen will be an exceedingly actual looking time to commence having sex. maximum women have a myth about what having somewhat one will be like. they want the chilly complicated actuality as a way to discourage them. also, a boy would not need somewhat one, yet even as i became youthful my boyfriends in person-friendly words had an exceedingly imprecise concept about contraceptives.
2016-10-13 23:56:26
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answered by ruddie 4
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I went out with a cute boy names Patrick when I was in 8th. grade. He was respectful, courteous, and friendly. I really liked Pat because he didn't act like the other boys in school with girlfriends.
2006-06-30 03:26:06
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answered by mrsdebra1966 7
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they can't because they are too young and dumb to know what love it. they don't love her they just want in her pants and that's a different thing alltogether. now tuck it away and leave the girls alone until you have your PHD. then you can have all the girls you want.
2006-06-30 03:23:18
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answered by oldsoftee2001 6
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