2006-06-30 03:15:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Same reason as for men. They are stupid and desperate in love at times too. The thing is.... we all want to find someone. Someone that is right for us and will treat us well and love us for a long period of time and maybe also for the rest of our lives.
I am no romantic. And does not nessasearily believe in the ONE true love. but I do believe that we are all capable of finding someone we can love and who will love us back.
But I digress. your question... Well I think many people are desperate becasue society puts alot of pressure on everyone, and maybe especially women, to find somone. as you grow up the pressure increases and by the time you see your self as a grown up it seems everyone around you have found someone that they are happy with. And if you are in a group of friends you will see that more and more events are marked by the couple with children factor. This is stressful for all singles.
Another factor is that the more you stress and the more desperate you are the harder it gets to get someone.. Hmm not sure I answered... I might have to try again.
The bottom line is... if you find a woman and you like her. treat her well. Is she stressed? well then try to calm her down. reassure her that you really DO like her. She might turn out not to be a stupid and desperate monster.
2006-06-30 03:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Siv'en 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of reasons why some are stupid when it comes to love. I could never list them all here, but there are some good ones, like say you are with someone for 5 yrs and have a 2 year old daughter with them, then you find that they cheated on you 2 yrs ago........ would you stay or go? I stayed because I was 8 months pregnant when I found out, plus he will regret it til the day he dies so that is his payback. You just have to learn to compromise, and if you really love someone you can forgive them, but you will never forget. If its worth it then yes you may seem stupid to others, but they don't know the whole deal, and they don't have to live your life. Life is what you make it, and nobody else can decide your fate!
2006-06-30 03:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they believe maybe this time they wont get hurt again so they give it another shot, but then their worse fear comes alive and they realize this man isnt any different from the others. So they are so desperate that they mend their heart by jumping on the next man that speaks. You've got to give it time, and look for those weak spots that ruined every other relationship you've been in.
2006-06-30 03:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by D's gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would have to do with lack of self confidence, love from your own family, or just plain blindness when it comes to love. Some women would jump into any relationship in hopes of being loved and/or to have someone to love just to get burned... some recover and move on and make smarter choices...and some just don't get it and end up being bitter and world hating ...To all women out there love yourself for who you are and what you could be with or without someone in your life...
2006-06-30 03:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by ilana73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They haven't grown up yet! We will sometimes do stupid things just to get a rise out of someone, but to be desperate she has yet to learn that she has control of what happens in her life!
2006-06-30 03:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by notoldjustwise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sugar Cane.
People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. But then, you probably don't know what that means...and we are the stupid ones?
2006-06-30 03:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that women are STUPID,
Its that in there head ,
There aren't complete , if they aren't married.
I prefer to stay single at this time,
I don't think by marrying a man will make me,
Any More complete ~!
As I said before ,
I want my man to come home to me ,
Because he wants to ,
Not because he has to ~!
( just my opinion )
~*~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-06-30 03:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason you obviously are unable to put a grammatically correct sentence together...
2006-06-30 03:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u sure???
sumtime cuz they jus fall in love and they cant help it.they dun wanna think wen they r in love wit sum1
2006-06-30 03:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Nu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea but personally im not like that i have barriers that i only let down when i completely trust that person
2006-06-30 03:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by browneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋