I want a relationship with a good guy, but i can't seem to find one. Is it that im 38 and getting to old for a relationship? I want a baby,, but i keep running into gerks all day long. What can I do to keep from ending up with all these loosers?I want a normal life with a nice guy!
2006-06-30 03:15:28 · 6 answers · asked by capster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are only a few of us good guys LOL
2006-07-04 06:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all, if you marry someone for the reason of saving your life, you will definitely come up short handed. A man can never save you. It's also very unfair to expect and burden any man with such a humongous request. Men are not "God" you know. Only you can save yourself by getting a different attitude. 20 years ago I had the exact same attitude as you as far as expecting a man to save my life. Now, I wonder why I ever felt that way. You are still very naive at 38. You may not realize it but all men have some very very bad faults. Even the good guys. Even if you do find a good guy and marry him one day, there will be times when you will wonder why you ever got married when the bad faults come out. 50% of the time I'm really glad I married the person I did, but 50% of the time I really wish I was single and free again of the responsibilities of marriage. I will tell you this and it is true: The grass always looks greener on the other side.
Why not just enjoy your life as it is and appreciate the fact that the dear Lord has kept you from marrying all the loosers instead of being negative and asking why you can't find a good one. Usually when people do that they become more relaxed and less desperate and finally attract the person that is right for them. However, remember, as I previously mentioned. Even the right person has terrible faults. You need to ask yourself if you are a woman who is willing to live with that. Us women are the same way too as we have faults also. It goes both ways. Count on your blessings for what you do have. No one has everything in life. Perhaps you should do as Angelina Jolie did. Adopt a baby as a single parent....or do you not have a heart big enough as Angelina's.
One additional note: You say you want a normal life with a nice guy. No matter how nice a guy you marry it does not make your life any more "normal" than if you were single. My life is living testament to that.
2006-07-03 20:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been saying the same thing about women. I am 39 and never been married and looking for someone decent and I am a handsome man and no me and you are still not to old to find the right one. Wishing you the best.
2006-06-30 10:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by jerryhmusic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of nice guys out there......they are called MEN. You keep meeting boys appearantly. Find a man in church, or some other place that a responsible, mature man would be! Good luck and remember, you are beautiful and God will bless you with love.
2006-06-30 10:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by Pimp_Slapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try that dating website E-Harmony. You should be able to find a decent guy on that website. You will be able to read profiles and match the certain guy that will fit your needs.
2006-06-30 10:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, you'll find one :) Make friends with guys, and not just potential dates, your friends can sometimes link you to other people.
2006-06-30 10:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋