If women's illusions were totally destroyed and they could see into our minds/hearts/bodies - would they run away screaming?
Do men tend to lie so much, in relationships, because the women have made it clear that the lies are necessary?
Could they bear the truth?
2006-06-30 02:46:47 · 9 answers · asked by Alexander Shannon 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most can bare the truth, though it may not get you laid.
2006-06-30 02:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say that women tend to tune out the bad and accept the good in most relationships. We don't neccessarily have all these illusions or whatever, but we know deep down what is really goin on. Some just like to hide it from themselves in order to try and achieve some sort of happiness. If you lie that is because you feel the need, not because women made it that way! From your statement you are the classic male..... a liar, probably a cheater, and you try to blame it all on the woman! Face up to the fact that you are never gonna find love when you are always breaking hearts.
2006-06-30 09:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt anyone truly knows how anyone really is on any level unless they took time to get to really know them.
Sad that it is come down to men or women not he or she in so many ways we are bunched together like cattle. No two people are a like.
As for your question I think it could also be said about men - in that we should all learn that we need to look deep into each other but not in such a manner that we judge each other but to learn tolerance and acceptance. To say all men or all women is really unfair because we all think differently. some men lie but so do some women / some men cheat but so do some women. It all goes right back to the beginning and that is judging someone without even taking the time to get to know them down deep in their minds/hearts/bodies.
By the way great question.
2006-06-30 09:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men initially look at most women as whether or not they would be good sex partners. Men imagine women naked, what their pubic hair looks like, etc. But deep down inside, this is just sex drive. Men are really looking for companionship with a long term relationship, but the sex drive is so strong, particularly in young men, that the erection speaks louder than the feelings. I hope that helps.
2006-06-30 10:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by gigantic_zebra_on_buffet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is just a difference in how each side feels about sex... obviously men think about it all the time and it can consume them... some women are like that, but not most of them. I have had conversations with my wife about how much I want it, and she was amazed at first, but now she understands 12 years later and I still want it as much now as I did then.
2006-06-30 09:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lies are not necessary. If men were honest relationships would work and women would be happy. But men are liars and they ruin everything
2006-06-30 09:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do. Some tend to think men are perverts for having certain fetishes and what not, but don't fret, there are some really friggin' cool women out there that understand how we think.
2006-06-30 09:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by DigDug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure my g/f knows how i feel, with the noises i make while she is sucking, but she just can't get me off with her mouth
2006-06-30 09:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this maybe only applies to those that lie???
2006-06-30 09:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by justin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋